feastervilee
Junior Member
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I'm Finally going to see me kids after three years, they are 5 & 7 now. They moved across country 3 years ago and mom would never agree with some sort of visiation. Finally i got approved for a loan and got a lawyer and modified visitations, at the same time my child support got reviewed and tripled, i'm left with a little over 200.00bucks a week to pay for my daily living expenses. I realize i have to pay support i'm not complaining. But I've requested to the mother that she provide ("help" is the word i used to her) clothes for them while they are here. She is sending 2 outfits and one pair of shoes, for a month visitation to me Here's a copy of what she EXACLTY said.
i will send a 2 outfits. You will need to purchase things for them while they are there. I will also be sending a pair of shoes. I simply do not have the money to go out and purchase all this stuff just for you. I have yet to receive the higher child support amount.
They do not wear pajamas at my house so I don't have any of those. Their feet have been growing too much to have multiple shoes right now. I also do not plan to carry movies or toys on the plane. It is too much of a hassle.
I'm i asking to much i've ask for stuff they already have never once did i request she go out and buy stuff. With the money situtation i'm in now i can't provide much to them either, so what harm is it? Can i get some advice on how to answer this to her without being a jerk?
I'm Finally going to see me kids after three years, they are 5 & 7 now. They moved across country 3 years ago and mom would never agree with some sort of visiation. Finally i got approved for a loan and got a lawyer and modified visitations, at the same time my child support got reviewed and tripled, i'm left with a little over 200.00bucks a week to pay for my daily living expenses. I realize i have to pay support i'm not complaining. But I've requested to the mother that she provide ("help" is the word i used to her) clothes for them while they are here. She is sending 2 outfits and one pair of shoes, for a month visitation to me Here's a copy of what she EXACLTY said.
i will send a 2 outfits. You will need to purchase things for them while they are there. I will also be sending a pair of shoes. I simply do not have the money to go out and purchase all this stuff just for you. I have yet to receive the higher child support amount.
They do not wear pajamas at my house so I don't have any of those. Their feet have been growing too much to have multiple shoes right now. I also do not plan to carry movies or toys on the plane. It is too much of a hassle.
I'm i asking to much i've ask for stuff they already have never once did i request she go out and buy stuff. With the money situtation i'm in now i can't provide much to them either, so what harm is it? Can i get some advice on how to answer this to her without being a jerk?