What is the name of your state? California
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I have been dealing with my Ex's emails everyday for almost 2 weeks now. He is attacking me, my mom watching the kids, the fact they don't go to daycare every single day (we pay by the day so its not costing him money by having them not go), the oldest ones grades and school she is attending, counseling (which he wont give permission for) and the fact the kids will miss one day in May because of my getting married. He thinks I have to send him a daily email letting him know if the kids went to afterschool care or not. This doesn't affect him as he doesn't pick them up. Is this something I need to do? There is no court order for payment of afterschool care. I asked him to help out and he agreed but I didn't know I would be subject to this kind of harassment.
It is a pretty well known fact that his Wifey is writing all the emails (he admitted to this a few times). There is nothing in our court order that I do not have to accept his email and as of this morning I have blocked his email address. Pls let me know if legally I can do this. He still has access to me by cell and work phones as well as my parents home phone if he needs me. I also am aware that he will try to access my email using various different email addresses and eventually resort to certified mail and/or dropping off letters at the pick-up/drop off of the kids.
I have been in and out of the dr office 4 times in the last 2 weeks since this began. I've been having severe nosebleeds (bleeding w/clots up to 30min) due to fluctuating blood pressure caused by the stress. I also have a red dots on my legs due to stress. Its ridiculous. I look like I have the measles!!
Can I file harassement charges or anything to get them to stop? I am fed up as it is affecting my health. He is maintaining that since he has legal joint custody that he is "entitled" to me giving him this daily information and notification.
Thanks for your help in advance.
I am not sure where to post this question so let me know if I need to move it.
I have been dealing with my Ex's emails everyday for almost 2 weeks now. He is attacking me, my mom watching the kids, the fact they don't go to daycare every single day (we pay by the day so its not costing him money by having them not go), the oldest ones grades and school she is attending, counseling (which he wont give permission for) and the fact the kids will miss one day in May because of my getting married. He thinks I have to send him a daily email letting him know if the kids went to afterschool care or not. This doesn't affect him as he doesn't pick them up. Is this something I need to do? There is no court order for payment of afterschool care. I asked him to help out and he agreed but I didn't know I would be subject to this kind of harassment.
It is a pretty well known fact that his Wifey is writing all the emails (he admitted to this a few times). There is nothing in our court order that I do not have to accept his email and as of this morning I have blocked his email address. Pls let me know if legally I can do this. He still has access to me by cell and work phones as well as my parents home phone if he needs me. I also am aware that he will try to access my email using various different email addresses and eventually resort to certified mail and/or dropping off letters at the pick-up/drop off of the kids.
I have been in and out of the dr office 4 times in the last 2 weeks since this began. I've been having severe nosebleeds (bleeding w/clots up to 30min) due to fluctuating blood pressure caused by the stress. I also have a red dots on my legs due to stress. Its ridiculous. I look like I have the measles!!
Can I file harassement charges or anything to get them to stop? I am fed up as it is affecting my health. He is maintaining that since he has legal joint custody that he is "entitled" to me giving him this daily information and notification.
Thanks for your help in advance.