lriggnatsum
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
Ohio
Hi,
I am now 22 years old and the guy is now 24. When I was 16, I was dating a guy and he forced me to have sex with him. He was about 6'6'' tall, 350 lbs., and is a master at karate. I, on the other hand, am now 5'9'' and 140 lbs., but then, I was only about 5'7'' and weighed about 125 lbs. He would always hold my head and make me do other things that I did not want to do also. He would say things like, "You just please me". The day it happened, I had asked him to take me home, but he pulled into a parking lot instead. One time, I told him to stop and he shoved me off of him, which scared me from trying to stop him anymore. He then took complete advantage of me and made me have sex with him by holding my hips against him. A friend of his called me a few years later and asked if he had ever done anything like that to me and I said that I didn't want to talk about it. He told me a story that a girl both him and the guy had dated and it was very similar to mine, so I told him my story. Then, when I was 21, a former friend of mine and I stupidly started talking to him again. We stopped by his house one night and her and I had a few drinks. He did not drink anything, but when she fell asleep, he started trying to take my clothes off and touch me again. I kept pushing him off of me and saying "No", but whenever I would try to get up or wake her up, he would stop me. He would start softly hitting my leg and get harder until I stopped trying to get up, or if I actually stood up, he would pull me back down beside him. He thought I was drunk, but I wasn't. He denies everything when talking to me, but I know what happened and when my former friend confronted him about all of this, he didn't deny it, but instead was mad that I told her.
I was wondering if it is too late to do anything about what happened. Should I have spoken up right away or is it too late? He harrasses me sometimes and I ran into him at the mall yesterday and when I tried to avoid him, he made a point to walk faster so he could get close to me, so I jolted into another store. Is there anything that can be done to him for what he did to me? I am taking anti-depressants because I could not deal with what he did and the nightmares were getting worse. My family does not know, just a few close friends.
Also, I think that my former friend might have been envolved the night we were drinking at his house. I think she knew what he was doing. She has caused a lot of emotional distress in my life and she is constantly harrassing me with instant messages and text messages. Is there anything that can be done about her?
Thanks,
D. Buckley
Ohio
Hi,
I am now 22 years old and the guy is now 24. When I was 16, I was dating a guy and he forced me to have sex with him. He was about 6'6'' tall, 350 lbs., and is a master at karate. I, on the other hand, am now 5'9'' and 140 lbs., but then, I was only about 5'7'' and weighed about 125 lbs. He would always hold my head and make me do other things that I did not want to do also. He would say things like, "You just please me". The day it happened, I had asked him to take me home, but he pulled into a parking lot instead. One time, I told him to stop and he shoved me off of him, which scared me from trying to stop him anymore. He then took complete advantage of me and made me have sex with him by holding my hips against him. A friend of his called me a few years later and asked if he had ever done anything like that to me and I said that I didn't want to talk about it. He told me a story that a girl both him and the guy had dated and it was very similar to mine, so I told him my story. Then, when I was 21, a former friend of mine and I stupidly started talking to him again. We stopped by his house one night and her and I had a few drinks. He did not drink anything, but when she fell asleep, he started trying to take my clothes off and touch me again. I kept pushing him off of me and saying "No", but whenever I would try to get up or wake her up, he would stop me. He would start softly hitting my leg and get harder until I stopped trying to get up, or if I actually stood up, he would pull me back down beside him. He thought I was drunk, but I wasn't. He denies everything when talking to me, but I know what happened and when my former friend confronted him about all of this, he didn't deny it, but instead was mad that I told her.
I was wondering if it is too late to do anything about what happened. Should I have spoken up right away or is it too late? He harrasses me sometimes and I ran into him at the mall yesterday and when I tried to avoid him, he made a point to walk faster so he could get close to me, so I jolted into another store. Is there anything that can be done to him for what he did to me? I am taking anti-depressants because I could not deal with what he did and the nightmares were getting worse. My family does not know, just a few close friends.
Also, I think that my former friend might have been envolved the night we were drinking at his house. I think she knew what he was doing. She has caused a lot of emotional distress in my life and she is constantly harrassing me with instant messages and text messages. Is there anything that can be done about her?
Thanks,
D. Buckley
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