What is the name of your state? minnesota
Has anyone had any experience with a situation like this at all? My ex just filed through dhs for me to pay daycare. ( apparently she has been working for a while but lied and said she wasn’t to try to get more cs out of me – it didn’t work). I filled out all of the paperwork and turned it in to the cs officer. I talked to her and she said that my ex is receiving a daycare subsidy. My child is in school and therefore is only in daycare for about 5 hours a week. However, my ex claims she is required to pay for 40 hours per week whether the child is there or not. The cs officer says she doesn’t feel it is fair for me to pay the entire amount of the subsidy since there is barely any actual daycare hours. She said she is setting the daycare amount that I am responsible for at $33/month. (fine with me!) But she did also say that she isn’t sure how exactly to calculate the amount and she is scheduling a hearing with the cs magistrate because she knows my ex will not agree to anything she decides (even if the cs officer had said that I have to pay the whole amount then my ex still would have taken it to court because she thinks that money needs to go directly to her even though it is required by law to go directly to the state to pay them back!)
Does anyone have any experience with this? Is it likely that the magistrate will overrule the cs officer and make me pay the whole amount even though the child is barely at the daycare?
The other thing is that my ex is the one who put herself in the situation where she needs to pay 40 hours per week of daycare for 5 hours of actual care. She moved last spring without telling me and refused to tell me where they lived other than which city. The courts let her get away with it because she claimed she was in fear of her life from her ex and was in safe housing ( a complete lie). I have joint legal custody. I am supposed to have some say in what is going on but I never do and the system just lets her do whatever she wants. If they hadn’t moved then I have someone who would be able to watch my child for that little time and there would be no daycare expenses at all. Don’t know if this makes a difference in the eyes of the law or not but just thought I’d mention it.
Has anyone had any experience with a situation like this at all? My ex just filed through dhs for me to pay daycare. ( apparently she has been working for a while but lied and said she wasn’t to try to get more cs out of me – it didn’t work). I filled out all of the paperwork and turned it in to the cs officer. I talked to her and she said that my ex is receiving a daycare subsidy. My child is in school and therefore is only in daycare for about 5 hours a week. However, my ex claims she is required to pay for 40 hours per week whether the child is there or not. The cs officer says she doesn’t feel it is fair for me to pay the entire amount of the subsidy since there is barely any actual daycare hours. She said she is setting the daycare amount that I am responsible for at $33/month. (fine with me!) But she did also say that she isn’t sure how exactly to calculate the amount and she is scheduling a hearing with the cs magistrate because she knows my ex will not agree to anything she decides (even if the cs officer had said that I have to pay the whole amount then my ex still would have taken it to court because she thinks that money needs to go directly to her even though it is required by law to go directly to the state to pay them back!)
Does anyone have any experience with this? Is it likely that the magistrate will overrule the cs officer and make me pay the whole amount even though the child is barely at the daycare?
The other thing is that my ex is the one who put herself in the situation where she needs to pay 40 hours per week of daycare for 5 hours of actual care. She moved last spring without telling me and refused to tell me where they lived other than which city. The courts let her get away with it because she claimed she was in fear of her life from her ex and was in safe housing ( a complete lie). I have joint legal custody. I am supposed to have some say in what is going on but I never do and the system just lets her do whatever she wants. If they hadn’t moved then I have someone who would be able to watch my child for that little time and there would be no daycare expenses at all. Don’t know if this makes a difference in the eyes of the law or not but just thought I’d mention it.