okiesooner
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? ok
Well I finally have internet access here in sandy Iraq.
Here are the court order details and my question:
My ex has custody I have visitation.
I am court ordered to be able to pick the children up from school during visitation, and access to all school and medical records.
Order is written as follows:
1 week each Spring
1 week each Fall
10 days at Christmas
8 weeks in the summer.
I have to give her 2 weeks written notice.
I will be home for 2 weeks in April. I have contacted the school and they have agreed to allow the children excused absences since I am home on deployment for only 2 weeks and this will be the only time I will be able to see them for a whole year.
My ex says that since she has custody she has made the decsion that the kids do not need to miss school and that I am not allowed to pull them out of school.
I cannot afford to stay there in a hotel for that time. I have a wife and 3 other children who all want to see the kids as she won't allow for them to come to see them while I am gone.
There is about a 10 hour geographical distance.
I filed contempt and for custody when she took off with the kids when I came home from deployement last time. I did not get custody but I did get a better visitation schedule. At that hearing the judge told her she needed to be more accomadating with my military schedule.
Our court order does not say we have to agree (although she says we have to) and it does not specify certain times for the visitation. Just a week in the Sping and I have to give her 2 weeks notice.
If she refuses or tells the school to refuse giving the children to me and I file contempt when I return from deployement would this be contempt for her?
Also, It looks as though I may be able to secure a non deployable position my for my last 3 years and then I am getting out of the military and have employment lined up after that. How does a shot at custody look for me? She has moved once from Ok to Tx with the courts permission (she has since moved back)...I throw this in as my home is Colorado.
Thanks for any input
Well I finally have internet access here in sandy Iraq.
Here are the court order details and my question:
My ex has custody I have visitation.
I am court ordered to be able to pick the children up from school during visitation, and access to all school and medical records.
Order is written as follows:
1 week each Spring
1 week each Fall
10 days at Christmas
8 weeks in the summer.
I have to give her 2 weeks written notice.
I will be home for 2 weeks in April. I have contacted the school and they have agreed to allow the children excused absences since I am home on deployment for only 2 weeks and this will be the only time I will be able to see them for a whole year.
My ex says that since she has custody she has made the decsion that the kids do not need to miss school and that I am not allowed to pull them out of school.
I cannot afford to stay there in a hotel for that time. I have a wife and 3 other children who all want to see the kids as she won't allow for them to come to see them while I am gone.
There is about a 10 hour geographical distance.
I filed contempt and for custody when she took off with the kids when I came home from deployement last time. I did not get custody but I did get a better visitation schedule. At that hearing the judge told her she needed to be more accomadating with my military schedule.
Our court order does not say we have to agree (although she says we have to) and it does not specify certain times for the visitation. Just a week in the Sping and I have to give her 2 weeks notice.
If she refuses or tells the school to refuse giving the children to me and I file contempt when I return from deployement would this be contempt for her?
Also, It looks as though I may be able to secure a non deployable position my for my last 3 years and then I am getting out of the military and have employment lined up after that. How does a shot at custody look for me? She has moved once from Ok to Tx with the courts permission (she has since moved back)...I throw this in as my home is Colorado.
Thanks for any input