I'm sorry if I offended you with my comment, but, I think it's probably in your and your wife's best interests if she not get paid for taking care of you--sort of like not allowing surgeons to operate on their own family members (conflict of interest, I think
).
Personally, I could not, in a million years, feel right about accepting payment for taking care of a family member. (again my little ol' opinion
Would you seriously still want your wife to nurse you after a divorce?
Just keep looking--there are plenty of great nurses out there
,
and good luck.
rachel
BTW--I've gotten frustrated too when I didn't get the advice/answers I wanted to hear, but I really believe the advice given (95% anyway) is truthful and helpful.