What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I live in a small town in Kansas. My wife and I decided to end our 9 year marriage 17 months ago. We are in our late 60's. We agreed it would be amicable...that was before she got an attorney. He's a pit bull, friendly with the judge....my attorney barely defended me and never presented an offense. I just fired him. He wouldn't respond to my emails (said he'd have to charge me $60 - $70 each time and didn't think I could afford it). I had also requested that he make arrangements to satisfy the judge's orders which he did not do. I am nearly broke, my ex is coming this weekend to take the tub faucet and light fixtures out of my house. This seems unbelieveable to me. We didn't have a bad marriage at all. I never even raised my voice to her. It seems to me that she quit taking medications that were necessary to her mental health...it was downhill from there. I don't know what to do. The debt is more than I can handle. Can a person represent themselves? Can I report my attorney to the state? How can I make this end? Her attorney is milking this for all he can get. I need help!