I live in FL and have been sent a notice of hearing by my hopefully soon-to-be- ex husband , the notice says it is a hearing for a Petition of Dissolution of Marriage. He served me some papers about 6 months ago but did not think they were divorce papers. I did not file an answer because I was confused and could not afford an attorney. At this point I still can not afford an attorney. I am anxious for the divorce because according to the the laws in FL I can not drop him off of my insurance and have been paying approximately $250 extra a month so that he can have medical insurance! The papers he served me with did not state anything that I did not agree with. I have a business trip out west for a very important work event on the date of the hearing. Do I have to attend?