my in-laws are actually my step-daughters legal guardins, it was order in stbx's first divorce that he or his ex-wife wouldn't be order to pay child support and no visitation was set up, they have been allowed to see her whenever they want or when my step daughter wants. she did live with us from nov.2007 till june of 2008, i have tried to help anyway i could with her, just by giving my mother law any help she needed. my step daughter is type 1 diabtic and i would stay with her at the hostipal or whatever my mother in-law needed. my stbx would not show up or ask why he should be there, my father in-law would watch our two so i could stay with her and give a hand. her mother lives in CA but is here whenever her daughter needs her, they have a best friend relationship more than mother/child but it works for them and her mother knows what her ex in-laws have done for her daughter, her mother and i get along great, we have become friends over the years. but my stbx is mad at everyone about his daughter that she was taken away from him,(even though he signed the papers giving her to his parents) but when we got the catch to have her, he was still doing his running around and it was my "job" to raise her. he argues with her like he is her brother and is very jealous of her, when she got her first car last year, he believed it should of been his company car, he evens competes with her in sports, if he is better than her or not. sorry went in the wrong direction. my step-daughter is well taken care of and does not have to worry about money in any for my in-laws are older and their house is paid for and my father in-law owns a business that has been around for over 30 years, her college is paid for and she will be taken care of, but he gets credit for her. please, give me a break?