The orgy I was referring to happened about two years ago. He was living with a female friend, who was bisexual, and she had a g/f who was dating my ex and the female roomate at the same time. Ex has a best, male friend, that he regularly engages in orgies with, and they all decided to do it one night. I heard about it, the whole thing happeneing, but I discovered it happened while my daughter was there, (I discovered this months later, after he had moved to CA, and there was nothing to do with it.)- and they had the video camera on.
I do not know if my daughter actually witnessed it, firsthand- but the whole fact that he was doing such ill-mannered, inappropriate acts while my daughter was in the same apt? And right next door, none the less.
I think I have referred to it on a different website.
Yes last visit, two weeks ago, my daughter told me she heard them... But he has a random girl over there, as his "girlfriend" every month, if not every two months, I think he is slowing down a bit.
But, I just do not agree with our children being exposed to his promiscuities. It is not good for them. What is it teaching them?
"Oh- Daddy has a NEW one tonight", and she HAS to stay the night as well, and wake up in the morning, and be present when the kids are there?
I do not do that. I had one man, (whom I was SERIOUS with)ONE -stay the night a few times, and when my daughter started asking questions, I made sure he came AFTER they were out for the night, kept it on a different floor, like downstairs, and he was gone before they got up.
I guess if their father is proud of it, rock on with your bad self then.
Just had to clarify on all of that...