What is the name of your state? MN
Joint custody, two children age 13. Court orders state that during the summer, mom will drop off children at dad's by 9pm on Sunday. Dad sent email stating that this Sunday, drop off must be at 7:30pm because he will not be home. Did not ask politely, stated that this is how it would be. Dad stated that if Mom did not drop off by 7:30, she must drop off by 6:30am Monday morning. It is a 1 hour drive to Dad's. Children have no way of getting into house if Dad is not home.
Does mom have to drop off at 7:30 instead of 9pm? If she drives to Dad's and he is not home, can she bring children back to her home and tell Dad that he now must pick children up?
1 1/2 hours earlier may seem like no big deal, but if Dad can get away with it once, he will continue to try and get away with it in the future and anything else he can think of. He has a history of this demanding behavior and I have learned not to give in and to follow the paperwork. If he lived 10 mins away, it would be no big deal for me to drive back home and bring them later, but an hours drive is a long ways.
Any advice as to what I should do in this situation?
Joint custody, two children age 13. Court orders state that during the summer, mom will drop off children at dad's by 9pm on Sunday. Dad sent email stating that this Sunday, drop off must be at 7:30pm because he will not be home. Did not ask politely, stated that this is how it would be. Dad stated that if Mom did not drop off by 7:30, she must drop off by 6:30am Monday morning. It is a 1 hour drive to Dad's. Children have no way of getting into house if Dad is not home.
Does mom have to drop off at 7:30 instead of 9pm? If she drives to Dad's and he is not home, can she bring children back to her home and tell Dad that he now must pick children up?
1 1/2 hours earlier may seem like no big deal, but if Dad can get away with it once, he will continue to try and get away with it in the future and anything else he can think of. He has a history of this demanding behavior and I have learned not to give in and to follow the paperwork. If he lived 10 mins away, it would be no big deal for me to drive back home and bring them later, but an hours drive is a long ways.
Any advice as to what I should do in this situation?