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I'm sorry, I am the grandma here.....I am just looking for feedback.
My son lives with me and had his 2 yr old daughter tonight - it was his visitation night. We were all sleeping except my daughter, when his child's mother came to our house drunk at 12am to start an argument as she has done countless times before. She walked right in because my daughter just got home and had not locked the door.
Mom woke her daughter up and was holding her saying manipulative things like her daddy doesn't love her, etc. she argued with my son and woke us all up. We urged her to leave but she wouldn't. She was going to attempt to leave with the child so we called the police. Mom told her daughter "they're calling the police now. The cops are going to take mommy away. They will take you away too now". These words scared her daughter even more. When the police came they told me to take the child upstairs while they sorted everything out. They either got mom to leave or they arrested her...we are not sure at this point.
The police have called dcfc on mom before for an incident where she pushed my son in front of their child, but nothing came of it...she was investigated but did not lose custody. Moms own parents have called the police on her for similar scenarios. At this point I'm just curious.....is showing up drunk and trying to take a child like this cause for the police to call dcfc again? And, as a concerned grandparent, should I be doing anything at all? Right now Im doing my best to let my son and the mom sort things out, but this kind of scenario is rather alarming to me, and its in my home, so it's right in my face.
I'm sorry, I am the grandma here.....I am just looking for feedback.
My son lives with me and had his 2 yr old daughter tonight - it was his visitation night. We were all sleeping except my daughter, when his child's mother came to our house drunk at 12am to start an argument as she has done countless times before. She walked right in because my daughter just got home and had not locked the door.
Mom woke her daughter up and was holding her saying manipulative things like her daddy doesn't love her, etc. she argued with my son and woke us all up. We urged her to leave but she wouldn't. She was going to attempt to leave with the child so we called the police. Mom told her daughter "they're calling the police now. The cops are going to take mommy away. They will take you away too now". These words scared her daughter even more. When the police came they told me to take the child upstairs while they sorted everything out. They either got mom to leave or they arrested her...we are not sure at this point.
The police have called dcfc on mom before for an incident where she pushed my son in front of their child, but nothing came of it...she was investigated but did not lose custody. Moms own parents have called the police on her for similar scenarios. At this point I'm just curious.....is showing up drunk and trying to take a child like this cause for the police to call dcfc again? And, as a concerned grandparent, should I be doing anything at all? Right now Im doing my best to let my son and the mom sort things out, but this kind of scenario is rather alarming to me, and its in my home, so it's right in my face.