Irishluck628
Junior Member
My 2 daughters are 18 & almost 17, we live in Nebraska. Their father has been an up and down rollercoaster to them their entire life (Not getting into this here)
But for the past year he has generally left them alone. At the start of this year, he married someone and had a baby (Not with the same woman) So his time has been pretty preoccupied.
He contacted me yesterday about ending his child support obligation and arrears. If I don't, he's going to reinstate his visitation. I understand that visitation and child support are 2 totally different things, and do not go hand in hand. But if this is what it takes for him to leave them alone, I'll do it. My biggest issue with this is his wording...
"The girls don't want anything to do with me and I don't want anything to do with them. I shouldn't have to pay for them. Otherwise I'm going to make them start coming here again. I just want whats just. You will probably have to write off the past and future child support like I paid cash to you. I can figure this out for you if you want"
I see this blowing up in my face! Just wondering if someone else has went through this and what steps to take or papers to sign?
Thank you for your time!
But for the past year he has generally left them alone. At the start of this year, he married someone and had a baby (Not with the same woman) So his time has been pretty preoccupied.
He contacted me yesterday about ending his child support obligation and arrears. If I don't, he's going to reinstate his visitation. I understand that visitation and child support are 2 totally different things, and do not go hand in hand. But if this is what it takes for him to leave them alone, I'll do it. My biggest issue with this is his wording...
"The girls don't want anything to do with me and I don't want anything to do with them. I shouldn't have to pay for them. Otherwise I'm going to make them start coming here again. I just want whats just. You will probably have to write off the past and future child support like I paid cash to you. I can figure this out for you if you want"
I see this blowing up in my face! Just wondering if someone else has went through this and what steps to take or papers to sign?
Thank you for your time!