ohcalcutta
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
I have joint legal and physical custody of my daughter. In the custody agreement, there is a right of first refusal clause for any amount of time over four hours. I suspect that the mother has been working shifts that exceed that amount of time but she has not once offered that time to me.
The court order also stipulates that the mother is to drop off our daughter at 9:00am when her time ends. Since the order was imposed, she has not been on time once, often arriving in excess of twenty minutes late. I understand that sometimes things happen, and that's fine, but unfortunately I only have one hour between when my daughter is supposed to be dropped off and when I need to be at work for my shift..there is no reason she needs to be late every single time.
My question is what steps would be necessary to prove she is not abiding by the order (in either case). I want to enforce the order, even if that means going back to court for contempt. I've been writing everything down, but I figure there must be some sort of proof necessary?
I have joint legal and physical custody of my daughter. In the custody agreement, there is a right of first refusal clause for any amount of time over four hours. I suspect that the mother has been working shifts that exceed that amount of time but she has not once offered that time to me.
The court order also stipulates that the mother is to drop off our daughter at 9:00am when her time ends. Since the order was imposed, she has not been on time once, often arriving in excess of twenty minutes late. I understand that sometimes things happen, and that's fine, but unfortunately I only have one hour between when my daughter is supposed to be dropped off and when I need to be at work for my shift..there is no reason she needs to be late every single time.
My question is what steps would be necessary to prove she is not abiding by the order (in either case). I want to enforce the order, even if that means going back to court for contempt. I've been writing everything down, but I figure there must be some sort of proof necessary?