Jeeplady66
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Mn
I have a 20 year old daughter with a 3.5 year old granddaughter still living at home. The deal was, she could stay at home rent free as long as she was a student and did her share around the house. Last year, she flunked out of her Vet Tech program at the local community college and went to work almost full time. We agreed that in Feb she would start paying 200/mo rent. She paid once. Her attitude is horrible, refuses to clean up after herself or child unless we have a terrible fight. Her bedroom, that she shares with g-baby is a disaster area. She has contacted the county about getting on a wait list for assisted housing but never completes the paperwork or gets on a list (approx 12 months wait in our area). Believe me, this is breaking my heart, we have done everything we can to foster her independence and work toward being a productive member of society and she is fighting us every step of the way and it is time for tough love and to kick this chick from the nest. I hate that she would become a taxpayer burden, but if we give her 30 days notice, will she be able to get 'emergency assistance' through the county? Not sure this is relevant, there is a support/visitation order in place and Dad is an active parent, although they are not together. He has had his cs reduced to $62/per month and is not paying that. The county is going after him for contempt.
I have a 20 year old daughter with a 3.5 year old granddaughter still living at home. The deal was, she could stay at home rent free as long as she was a student and did her share around the house. Last year, she flunked out of her Vet Tech program at the local community college and went to work almost full time. We agreed that in Feb she would start paying 200/mo rent. She paid once. Her attitude is horrible, refuses to clean up after herself or child unless we have a terrible fight. Her bedroom, that she shares with g-baby is a disaster area. She has contacted the county about getting on a wait list for assisted housing but never completes the paperwork or gets on a list (approx 12 months wait in our area). Believe me, this is breaking my heart, we have done everything we can to foster her independence and work toward being a productive member of society and she is fighting us every step of the way and it is time for tough love and to kick this chick from the nest. I hate that she would become a taxpayer burden, but if we give her 30 days notice, will she be able to get 'emergency assistance' through the county? Not sure this is relevant, there is a support/visitation order in place and Dad is an active parent, although they are not together. He has had his cs reduced to $62/per month and is not paying that. The county is going after him for contempt.