and what happens if your stbx dies? To that I have a simple answer that I believe in- both parents should carry life insurance.
Originally Posted by stealth2
That and - and education or trade is important so that you can support yourself and any children you have.I'm not dissagreeing with that statement. I have a great education as well as a well paying job. But at the same time, you want to keep the child accustomed to the same standard of living that he or she is used to and being a single parent often comes with greater financial responsibility (ie paying all bills of one salary instead of what used to be two).
I could also take it a step further to say that you are also saying that stay at home moms should re-think their career choices. And to each their own, some may see that is being the right decision for their family at the time. And in life, we each make best decision at the time based on the information that we have at the time. Down the road, we might have to re-assess those decisions.
But this is neither here nor there- I feel that I have gained a ton of inisight from all of this and bottom line, I need to figure out if my stbx really want to see his child more, or if it is just about the money. If it is about the money, easy enough- I can take less support and have the child more.