Ex will not provide new address and summer visit coming up???

[majebe]

Illinois

My ex divorced his second wife in December of 2000 and has recently purchased a new home (so he says) and won't provide his new address to me. His words "there is no way you f---ing bitch I am going to give you my new address" Typical language for him. Anyway, do I have to let my daughter go the 4 week summer visit if he will not provide his address?

Thanks

 

[MySonsMom]

Illinois

My ex divorced his second wife in December of 2000 and has recently purchased a new home (so he says) and won't provide his new address to me. His words "there is no way you f---ing bitch I am going to give you my new address" Typical language for him. Anyway, do I have to let my daughter go the 4 week summer visit if he will not provide his address?

Thanks

You would have a valid reason to withhold visitation if this went to court. Send him a letter (to his old address that hopefully will be forwarded to his new one OR to a family member of his who can get the letter to him) explaining that before you allow the child to go with him, you need a current address and phone number. Until he provides you with that info, you will not allow her to leave with him.

This is exactly what I would do.

Good luck!

[Edited by MySonsMom on 06-14-2001 at 02:27 PM]

 

[LegalBeagle]

Do not give the letter to someone who knows him. Send it certified, return receipt to the last known address. If it comes back undelivered, then that is your proof.

 

[Ambr]

in the words of my judge...

his lack of communication has created consistent conflicts which are, in the least, detrimental to the welfare of the child.