stephenk said:the use of the credit report was legitimate to argue you are financially irresponsible - you had a bankruptcy - and therefore unable to take care of your child. you would use the same information on your ex and you know it.
I never had a bankruptcy. And I don't have anything that I am worried about to hide. So the fact that he pulled it has no effect on me what so ever. It is all a privacy matter.
[/QUOTE]the fact he is an alcoholic has more to do with your choice of men to have a baby with than his problem with drinking.[/QUOTE]
Yes, I made a bad choice when I was younger.
[/QUOTE]Your kid has a rough road ahead.[/QUOTE]
She is a thriving straight A (1 in elementary) student, who is extremely stable. I have done everything that I possibly can/could do to make sure she is happy and does well in life. Sure she will have a rough road in regards to her father. However, her father does love her and that is all she needs to know!