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Kaecee
Guest
Hi..I hope you can help us. My Boyfriend and I have been
living together now for two years. He has a child in Fresno,
Ca.My Boyfriend didn't have to pay child support for two
years due to she got the house. My Boyfriend didn't realize
it was for two years he thought it was all the time he had
miss understood. We bought this house and he needed his
divorce papers. We got copies of them because he had lost
them. He was reading and after two years he is to pay child
support it now has been 3 years we just found out. The ex
wife had never said anything has never went to child support
enforcement or never made an issue of it. Now for two years
that I have been with my boyfriend he calls his girl on ever
holiday and birthday and we get the same story. She can't
talk she is outside,she is at a friends house, she is in the
bath tub, and last night it was his girl's birthday and we
got she is next door at her birthday party. Well if that was
infact true why wouldn't the mom be at her own daughter's
bithday party the girl just turned 7. And the time before
that we called Thanksgiving it was she was in the tub
call back in 10 mins. We did and the phone stayed busy for 3
hours plus. In two years my boyfriend only got to talk to
his girl one time for 2 mins. We asked his ex wife beginning
of Nov. if we could come out and see his girl she said yes.
Now we have the plane tickets for Mach 8-11. and we told her
this last night she then says well one day she might not
beable to spend with you because he girlfrined might be
moving away. Now who is more important here the girl's
father that never gets to see her or talk to her or the
girl's little girlfriend. We are spending tons of money just
to see her for two days. We will have to rent a car and get
motels and everything. Also the ex wife was suppose to bring
the child out to Nebraska in 1998 for visitations to see her
dad and the ex wife never did and also the ex wife has never
called my boyfriend in 5 years. Now does this not sound
like a case of a monther keeping her child away from the
father? What rights does the father have in this case and
can the father go for custody of this minor child so he can
get to know his daugher?
Thank you for all your help,
Karen
living together now for two years. He has a child in Fresno,
Ca.My Boyfriend didn't have to pay child support for two
years due to she got the house. My Boyfriend didn't realize
it was for two years he thought it was all the time he had
miss understood. We bought this house and he needed his
divorce papers. We got copies of them because he had lost
them. He was reading and after two years he is to pay child
support it now has been 3 years we just found out. The ex
wife had never said anything has never went to child support
enforcement or never made an issue of it. Now for two years
that I have been with my boyfriend he calls his girl on ever
holiday and birthday and we get the same story. She can't
talk she is outside,she is at a friends house, she is in the
bath tub, and last night it was his girl's birthday and we
got she is next door at her birthday party. Well if that was
infact true why wouldn't the mom be at her own daughter's
bithday party the girl just turned 7. And the time before
that we called Thanksgiving it was she was in the tub
call back in 10 mins. We did and the phone stayed busy for 3
hours plus. In two years my boyfriend only got to talk to
his girl one time for 2 mins. We asked his ex wife beginning
of Nov. if we could come out and see his girl she said yes.
Now we have the plane tickets for Mach 8-11. and we told her
this last night she then says well one day she might not
beable to spend with you because he girlfrined might be
moving away. Now who is more important here the girl's
father that never gets to see her or talk to her or the
girl's little girlfriend. We are spending tons of money just
to see her for two days. We will have to rent a car and get
motels and everything. Also the ex wife was suppose to bring
the child out to Nebraska in 1998 for visitations to see her
dad and the ex wife never did and also the ex wife has never
called my boyfriend in 5 years. Now does this not sound
like a case of a monther keeping her child away from the
father? What rights does the father have in this case and
can the father go for custody of this minor child so he can
get to know his daugher?
Thank you for all your help,
Karen