okiesooner
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Oklahoma
I dont want to come across as a bitter ex spouse that is constantly loooking for a reason to haul their former spouse in court.
I have some concerns. Today I finally received the enrollment that I had been asking for on one of my children. I had been asking for months always getting an excuse. Well I noticed that in the father section I was omited or put N/A and in some places I was literally penciled in by my ex at the bottom. In other spots the step dad is listed as father.
I talked to the dentist office today to who originally didn't want to give me records. Well they are going to send them, but was able to talk briefly to find out that my kids is haivng more fillings, and baby teeth extracted due to decay. A couple years ago I took her when I returned form deployment and she had 6 cavities, a visit I toolk her to after that she was cavity free. then 6 months later (while she was with my ex) she had decay so bad that she had to have a caps put in baby teeth. I asked my ex how her teeth got so bad within 6 months and she hung up on me. On the childrens next visitation I took them they had no cavities. 6 months later ex take them and now we have more cavities and teeth being pulled due to decay, and that is within 6 months!!
I have had the dentist here tell me that mom must brush her teeth better!!
Our court order states she doesnt have to tell me. But the last time she sent me the bill which I paid and thats how I found out....this time she hasnt told me or sent the bill....I am guessing to keep the info from me.
Am I being a nag for being concerned?
Is there a legal avenue to pursue and would it be worth it?
I dont want to come across as a bitter ex spouse that is constantly loooking for a reason to haul their former spouse in court.
I have some concerns. Today I finally received the enrollment that I had been asking for on one of my children. I had been asking for months always getting an excuse. Well I noticed that in the father section I was omited or put N/A and in some places I was literally penciled in by my ex at the bottom. In other spots the step dad is listed as father.
I talked to the dentist office today to who originally didn't want to give me records. Well they are going to send them, but was able to talk briefly to find out that my kids is haivng more fillings, and baby teeth extracted due to decay. A couple years ago I took her when I returned form deployment and she had 6 cavities, a visit I toolk her to after that she was cavity free. then 6 months later (while she was with my ex) she had decay so bad that she had to have a caps put in baby teeth. I asked my ex how her teeth got so bad within 6 months and she hung up on me. On the childrens next visitation I took them they had no cavities. 6 months later ex take them and now we have more cavities and teeth being pulled due to decay, and that is within 6 months!!
I have had the dentist here tell me that mom must brush her teeth better!!
Our court order states she doesnt have to tell me. But the last time she sent me the bill which I paid and thats how I found out....this time she hasnt told me or sent the bill....I am guessing to keep the info from me.
Am I being a nag for being concerned?
Is there a legal avenue to pursue and would it be worth it?