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It's been two months since my mother has died and the pain and yet to go away. For fear of losing interested readers, I will try my best to be as detailed but as brief as possible.
My mother was direct admit from her MD to our little po' dunk hospital for stomach pain. Several tests were done and it was concluded that a surgon would need to do exploratory laparoscopy to rule out cancer. Well initial test was performed and mom underwent procedure. Surgon admitts he took out pieces of "tumor" to send off to lab for further results. He pushed that although surgery wasn't emergent, we needed to get it out immediately. This was on a Thursday and he wanted to do the surgery on Monday. I insisted that b/c although mom was 58 and in fair health, she had been a smoker and has high b/p, she needed a second opinion. I pushed for a referral for a cardiologist b/c of what I saw on a copy of an inital EKG test that looked abnormal. He agreed that indeed it was abnormal and said he would send a specialist to see her. Mom had another EKG and a stress test b/f surgery. The cardiologist was to meet my mother after the test were ran but we never met him. Supposedly the cardiologist gave the go ahead and when the surgery was complete, the doctor stated that the tumor was actually a periforated bowel and that he only had to staple it up. Hummm??
Well, she comes out and has a massive heart attack and in the meantime has developed septicemia. Her b/p plumets and they scramble to find another hospital to send her to. The doctors when we get to the new hospital, are reluctant to take my mom and tell me that it will be hard to find a doctor who will be willing to "fix another's mistake". Well, they find one. All the while she is on and off a ventilator because she now has severe CHF and has pulmonary edema so bad that they can't even do a cath to detect just how bad her MI has affected her ejection fraction.The CCU nurse mentions to me at this point and time that b/c of her dead bowel, it made the situation that much more dire. Just out of pure luck does she get well enough to come off the vent. Immediately the doctors start talking about a CABG and a Pulmonary Aortic Valve replacement. (Uh? Hello? She isn't even a cannidate for surgery.) Well they convince my father that without it she will surely die but wouldn't give statistical figures of what the likelyhood she could even pull through with or without it. My mother maintained her infection the entire time and even into the heart surgery. They never address the dead bowel issue and had her up and eating solids after her surgery. Guess they forgot?
Ugh, I am so angry. There is so much more but I tried to hit the key points. Sorry it's a rambling mess. The code when she died was a horrible mess. My father had the lovely pleasure of witnessing the terrible ordeal b/c no one thought to take him somewhere else. Things went wrong and there is still so much more.
As you can tell, I am still reeling. My father has finally started to see the light when we had to start threatening to get a lawyer just so that the death certificate could even be filed!! The physicians were disagreeing and apparently there was a mixup. I am 100% certain we have a case, but what to do first is unclear. We live in a small town so to go to a local lawyer is completely out of the question. It's small town folk if you know what I mean? Well, any advice or help to lead me in the right direction would be really appreciated. Thanks for reading such a long post.
It's been two months since my mother has died and the pain and yet to go away. For fear of losing interested readers, I will try my best to be as detailed but as brief as possible.
My mother was direct admit from her MD to our little po' dunk hospital for stomach pain. Several tests were done and it was concluded that a surgon would need to do exploratory laparoscopy to rule out cancer. Well initial test was performed and mom underwent procedure. Surgon admitts he took out pieces of "tumor" to send off to lab for further results. He pushed that although surgery wasn't emergent, we needed to get it out immediately. This was on a Thursday and he wanted to do the surgery on Monday. I insisted that b/c although mom was 58 and in fair health, she had been a smoker and has high b/p, she needed a second opinion. I pushed for a referral for a cardiologist b/c of what I saw on a copy of an inital EKG test that looked abnormal. He agreed that indeed it was abnormal and said he would send a specialist to see her. Mom had another EKG and a stress test b/f surgery. The cardiologist was to meet my mother after the test were ran but we never met him. Supposedly the cardiologist gave the go ahead and when the surgery was complete, the doctor stated that the tumor was actually a periforated bowel and that he only had to staple it up. Hummm??
Well, she comes out and has a massive heart attack and in the meantime has developed septicemia. Her b/p plumets and they scramble to find another hospital to send her to. The doctors when we get to the new hospital, are reluctant to take my mom and tell me that it will be hard to find a doctor who will be willing to "fix another's mistake". Well, they find one. All the while she is on and off a ventilator because she now has severe CHF and has pulmonary edema so bad that they can't even do a cath to detect just how bad her MI has affected her ejection fraction.The CCU nurse mentions to me at this point and time that b/c of her dead bowel, it made the situation that much more dire. Just out of pure luck does she get well enough to come off the vent. Immediately the doctors start talking about a CABG and a Pulmonary Aortic Valve replacement. (Uh? Hello? She isn't even a cannidate for surgery.) Well they convince my father that without it she will surely die but wouldn't give statistical figures of what the likelyhood she could even pull through with or without it. My mother maintained her infection the entire time and even into the heart surgery. They never address the dead bowel issue and had her up and eating solids after her surgery. Guess they forgot?
Ugh, I am so angry. There is so much more but I tried to hit the key points. Sorry it's a rambling mess. The code when she died was a horrible mess. My father had the lovely pleasure of witnessing the terrible ordeal b/c no one thought to take him somewhere else. Things went wrong and there is still so much more.
As you can tell, I am still reeling. My father has finally started to see the light when we had to start threatening to get a lawyer just so that the death certificate could even be filed!! The physicians were disagreeing and apparently there was a mixup. I am 100% certain we have a case, but what to do first is unclear. We live in a small town so to go to a local lawyer is completely out of the question. It's small town folk if you know what I mean? Well, any advice or help to lead me in the right direction would be really appreciated. Thanks for reading such a long post.