The state of co determines that the total $ needed for two kids, 9 and 11 is $510 per month. I pay $800. Her lifestyle is known well in a small town, drugs, parties, drinking. she recently had a party at her home while the kids slept and passed out dildos for all present.
Then why are you paying more? Did you AGREE to pay more? has there been a substantial change in circumstance since this order was made ordering you to pay that much? IF so go back and file for a modification. If quite a few years has passed file for one anyway. As for the dildos and the parties, you have PROOF of this right? You have filed for custody? Right? You have done ANYTHING to legally remove the children from this environment?
when i state that i have no relationship with them, i define "relationship" as more than a 5 min phone call once a month. would you be content with that? i cannot call them as a result of the bogus restraining order, i cannot go to their school functions because of same.
How were you found guilty of a "bogus restraining order"? Did you consent to a restraining order? Or was there enough evidence to find you guilty to get the restraining order? Or did you not show up to defend yourself against said restraining order?
I have filed numerous contempt citations, always heard by same judge. never, has he held her in contempt. always, he has slapped her wrists and told her to do what the order says. ususally giving her 60 days to comply, when she had not complied for the previous 180.
So you keep taking her back to court. You keep protesting to the court. You keep pointing out how mom is interfering. Or you file for custody and request a guardian ad liteum be appointed. There is more than one to accomplish being a parent.
according to the justice department, since 2000, 26 million fathers have been "forcibly" removed from their children by a corrupt family court system. you don't seem interested in giving me advice. why is that?