Trust me, I understand and I agree, but you have to be calm. Make sure you have an attorney to do this for you. It's exactly why my ex's parents sued me. I wouldn't hand over the children every. single. time they asked.what i don't understand is why she is able to take me to court for visitation WHEN I AM LETTING HER SEE HIM! Its not even like i stopped letting her visit him i am just not letting her visit him the amount of time she is requesting which is in her words minimally once a week, that is outrageous in my eyes, i didnt even see my grandparents once a week sometimes i didnt even see them once a month so what gives her the right to do this when she does see the child just not enough in her eyes. I feel like a court shouldnt even entertain this case because to me it seems completely ridiculous and i feel like my control over my child as his parent is being taken away and that is completely not fair. Whats the point in having my own child if everyone can just take me to court to try to get some control and rights to a child that isnt even theirs this is unbelievable. Maybe i shouldnt have any more kids and just start taking my family members to court to have access to their kids and do it that way, do you see how ridiculous this all sounds.
I understand that you're venting but you cannot sue any family member for visitation. In NY, that privilege is for grandparents and siblings.