he is MAD now!!
LeagleBeagle,
ex is VERY upset that i will not agree to let him claim her everyother year. seems to be taking it out on our daughter.
for the past 3 years or so, on his weekend he would pick her up sometime sat. afternoon/evening (his choice,he started to work 2nd shift, he has been on 1st shift since aug 2000, but didn't change the schedule)
daughter has always been able to make plans with freinds and
family on friday nights,movies,sleepovers ect.
this is his weekend- he called her on 3-9 @ 4:00pm to tell her he was on his way to get her, she was out with grandpa and a cousin, so he left several messages for her to call him when they returned. so she called. he was yelling at her, telling her she was very irresponsible making her feel really bad, she started to cry (she had always had fridays to do "her thing"-she didn't understand why he was so mad)
she hung up the phone, and ask me to call him and talk to him about her plans for the evening. i did, i was very nice (didn't want to make it worse) i tried to help him understand that she is used to having friday pm for herself.
would it be possible for her to be picked up on sat aftn? we talked for a moment he seemed to clam down a bit. then,
he asked to speak with her, i handed her the phone, more
yelling, daughter could also hear new step-mom in background
saying "she thinks she can cry her way out of anything"
daughter started crying again, he told her to call him when
she wanted to see him again. now daughter(12 yrs. old)
does not want to go to his house at all this weekend.
is begging me not to make her. do i have to make her?
what happens if i don't? can i record phone conservations?
Please advise,
Ohio
[Edited by lolrogers on 03-10-2001 at 08:11 AM]