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TheGeekess
Keeper of the Kraken
"Am I common law married after living with my lover for six months?
Not on that basis alone. Common law marriage has more myths associated with it than perhaps any other area of family law. The fact is, the existence of a common law marriage in Oklahoma is hard to prove. Cohabitation, using the same last name, combining finances, jumping over broomsticks at a party, and other common-law marriage myths are just pieces of a much larger puzzle. By themselves, they mean nothing.
How does one prove a common law marriage?
Most marriages are established by following statutory procedures. They are commonly called ceremonial marriages. Oklahoma is one of only a handful of states (8 at last count) to recognize consensual non-ceremonial marriages. These are called common law marriages. They are formed by the consent of the parties who enter into the marriage, without meeting all the state requirements, such as a ceremony or a license. In other words, common law marriage is a state of mind.
Oklahoma case law sets forth a five-part test to establish a common law marriage:
* An actual and mutual agreement between the spouses to be husband and wife;
* A permanent relationship;
* An exclusive relationship;
* The parties to the marriage must hold themselves out publicly as husband and wife, and;
* Cohabitation as man and wife (There is actually a split of authority on this particular standard).
The party asserting a common law marriage must prove all of these elements by clear and convincing evidence. This can be done with evidence such as joint income tax returns, joint financial accounts, jointly held assets, joint credit, medical records, insurance records, introductions and comments to third parties, hotel receipts, and any number of other sources. If clear and convincing evidence is missing as to any part of the above referenced test, the claim of a common law marriage will fail. Obviously, each common law marriage case is determined on its own facts."
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/oklahoma/common_law_marriage_in_oklahoma
"Common Law Marriage: Oklahoma Here We Come!
Why did we single out Oklahoma? There’s no special reason. While majority of the other states in the US have a definitive stand on this issue, the common law concept in this state seems to be somewhat different…or even controversial. Common law arrangements that took place in Oklahoma before November 1, 1998 are recognized. The ones that occurred after that date have a nebulous character with respect to state law.
The controversy boils down to one thing: given the absence of a clear-cut ruling, the general understanding is that common law marriages are valid in Oklahoma. There’s a big but, though. Since the validity of common marriages in Oklahoma is sometimes difficult to ascertain, couples are advised to go for a ceremonial marriage.
Based on title 43, section 7-A of the Oklahoma Legislature, all marriages have to be entered into by way of a formal ceremony performed or solemnized in the presence of at least two adults and competent persons as witnesses. It must be officiated by a judge, active or retired, or an ordained minister of a religion, priest or other ecclesiastical representative or rabbi who all must be at least 18 years old."
http://www.professorshouse.com/family/relationships/common-law-marriage.aspx
http://www.ncsl.org/programs/cyf/commonlaw.htm
Google is your friend:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q="common+law+marriage"++oklahoma&btnG=Google+Search
Not on that basis alone. Common law marriage has more myths associated with it than perhaps any other area of family law. The fact is, the existence of a common law marriage in Oklahoma is hard to prove. Cohabitation, using the same last name, combining finances, jumping over broomsticks at a party, and other common-law marriage myths are just pieces of a much larger puzzle. By themselves, they mean nothing.
How does one prove a common law marriage?
Most marriages are established by following statutory procedures. They are commonly called ceremonial marriages. Oklahoma is one of only a handful of states (8 at last count) to recognize consensual non-ceremonial marriages. These are called common law marriages. They are formed by the consent of the parties who enter into the marriage, without meeting all the state requirements, such as a ceremony or a license. In other words, common law marriage is a state of mind.
Oklahoma case law sets forth a five-part test to establish a common law marriage:
* An actual and mutual agreement between the spouses to be husband and wife;
* A permanent relationship;
* An exclusive relationship;
* The parties to the marriage must hold themselves out publicly as husband and wife, and;
* Cohabitation as man and wife (There is actually a split of authority on this particular standard).
The party asserting a common law marriage must prove all of these elements by clear and convincing evidence. This can be done with evidence such as joint income tax returns, joint financial accounts, jointly held assets, joint credit, medical records, insurance records, introductions and comments to third parties, hotel receipts, and any number of other sources. If clear and convincing evidence is missing as to any part of the above referenced test, the claim of a common law marriage will fail. Obviously, each common law marriage case is determined on its own facts."
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/oklahoma/common_law_marriage_in_oklahoma
"Common Law Marriage: Oklahoma Here We Come!
Why did we single out Oklahoma? There’s no special reason. While majority of the other states in the US have a definitive stand on this issue, the common law concept in this state seems to be somewhat different…or even controversial. Common law arrangements that took place in Oklahoma before November 1, 1998 are recognized. The ones that occurred after that date have a nebulous character with respect to state law.
The controversy boils down to one thing: given the absence of a clear-cut ruling, the general understanding is that common law marriages are valid in Oklahoma. There’s a big but, though. Since the validity of common marriages in Oklahoma is sometimes difficult to ascertain, couples are advised to go for a ceremonial marriage.
Based on title 43, section 7-A of the Oklahoma Legislature, all marriages have to be entered into by way of a formal ceremony performed or solemnized in the presence of at least two adults and competent persons as witnesses. It must be officiated by a judge, active or retired, or an ordained minister of a religion, priest or other ecclesiastical representative or rabbi who all must be at least 18 years old."
http://www.professorshouse.com/family/relationships/common-law-marriage.aspx
http://www.ncsl.org/programs/cyf/commonlaw.htm
Google is your friend:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q="common+law+marriage"++oklahoma&btnG=Google+Search
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