What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Iowa
I have a quick question regarding the way a paragraph, concerning visitation, is written in my divorce decree. Maybe it's more of a question about how an outline is read. Anyway, here goes...there is a paragraph (#3) in my decree that says, "In the event that the parties do not otherwise agree, visitation shall be as follows:" Under paragraph #3 there are paragraphs a, b, c, and d. Paragraph d says that my ex "shall have 1 two-week period or 2 one-week periods of summer visitation. (ex) shall inform (me) of these dates by May 1st. In the event that (ex) does not inform (me) of these dates by May 1st, visitation shall be..." It then goes on to set 2 dates for summer visitation. My question is, even though my ex gives me the dates by the first of May, but I don't agree with those date because my kids already have a fishing trip with my family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins) planned, do we go with the dates set by the Judge? I guess, the way I'm reading it, paragraph #3 is the MAIN paragraph concerning visitation and everything following (under) that paragraph is governed by what is stated in that paragraph. So, since I don't agree with the dates my ex has chosen for summer visitation, I assume that we will have to go with the dates set by the court. Am I reading this wrong? Thanks in advance for any help.
I have a quick question regarding the way a paragraph, concerning visitation, is written in my divorce decree. Maybe it's more of a question about how an outline is read. Anyway, here goes...there is a paragraph (#3) in my decree that says, "In the event that the parties do not otherwise agree, visitation shall be as follows:" Under paragraph #3 there are paragraphs a, b, c, and d. Paragraph d says that my ex "shall have 1 two-week period or 2 one-week periods of summer visitation. (ex) shall inform (me) of these dates by May 1st. In the event that (ex) does not inform (me) of these dates by May 1st, visitation shall be..." It then goes on to set 2 dates for summer visitation. My question is, even though my ex gives me the dates by the first of May, but I don't agree with those date because my kids already have a fishing trip with my family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins) planned, do we go with the dates set by the Judge? I guess, the way I'm reading it, paragraph #3 is the MAIN paragraph concerning visitation and everything following (under) that paragraph is governed by what is stated in that paragraph. So, since I don't agree with the dates my ex has chosen for summer visitation, I assume that we will have to go with the dates set by the court. Am I reading this wrong? Thanks in advance for any help.
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