What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? IL My wife has put a hold on our divorce and i know she did this just out of spite. I am disabled and there is noway i can afford an attorney to help me in these matters so i am stuck doing this alone. We have been sepperated over almost 2 years now and i just want the divorce done and over with so i can go on with my life. She had filed the divorce back in april of 2007. The biggest factor that plays in this case is file under extreme mental and physical abuse, and i do own up to some of it but not all of it. She has exaggerated alot of what had happened, but none the less i am guilty of some of it. I have Done a mens domestic abuse and I rather enjoyed the class, I learned alot from that class. My question is, is there anyway to force the divorce thru, and is there a pro bono lawyer out there willing to help me. I might add that my wife was married before and he filed under mental abuse on her which the courts awarded hands down as he proved this with out a doubt. I just want this divorce over and done with.