tigger22472
Senior Member
What is the name of your state? Indiana
k, hubby has a new order as of last month. He has allowed his ex to have primary custody with him having visitation to go by the Indiana guidelines (with a few provisions) as well as a detailed FROR.
Technically Memorial Day weekend would be his normally scheduled weekend... however, it will be mom's this year. I'm in the process of drawing up a calendar for all of this. Seeing as holiday's override regular visitation he would take the following weekend. However, that might not be the issue. It seems that mom is planning a vacation with just her boyfriend for that weekend. By the order of FROR because this will be out of state she will be required to offer that time to husband.. which of course he will take. But, by the guidelines (as well as if things would have not changed from 50/50) the 4th of July Holiday is his. Would he be required in any way to 'trade' her holidays if she chooses to take vacation without the child on one of her holidays? The way I read the guidelines technically he would even be allowed another weekend considering FROR is EXTRA time but since it would land on his regular weekend he probably wouldn't do that but I truly see her attempting to say that if he takes her Memorial weekend (that she wouldn't spend with child anyway) she would get the 4th of July.
k, hubby has a new order as of last month. He has allowed his ex to have primary custody with him having visitation to go by the Indiana guidelines (with a few provisions) as well as a detailed FROR.
Technically Memorial Day weekend would be his normally scheduled weekend... however, it will be mom's this year. I'm in the process of drawing up a calendar for all of this. Seeing as holiday's override regular visitation he would take the following weekend. However, that might not be the issue. It seems that mom is planning a vacation with just her boyfriend for that weekend. By the order of FROR because this will be out of state she will be required to offer that time to husband.. which of course he will take. But, by the guidelines (as well as if things would have not changed from 50/50) the 4th of July Holiday is his. Would he be required in any way to 'trade' her holidays if she chooses to take vacation without the child on one of her holidays? The way I read the guidelines technically he would even be allowed another weekend considering FROR is EXTRA time but since it would land on his regular weekend he probably wouldn't do that but I truly see her attempting to say that if he takes her Memorial weekend (that she wouldn't spend with child anyway) she would get the 4th of July.