What is the name of your state? California
Not sure why the other thread was closed. I have one more question.
Here is what I have for the Respondance paperwork. Does it sound good or do I need to fine-tune it a bit more:
"I am requesting that the current order for holiday visitation stand. Exchanging the children at Noon on Xmas Day is not an issue for me nor the children. His work schedule changes continually (he is a police officer) & only has Xmas off when it falls on his regular days off. This year he took the Xmas holiday off from work which is also his court-ordered holiday visitation. My family lives in the same city as I do so no travel is necessary. His family lives close to him (3-40 min both brother and mother). His wife's family, however, lives out of town in Sacramento, CA and Colorado. I offered him a swap of visitation time for Xmas this year, but he deemed it unfair. The swap I offered would allow us both to have the chilren when we are off work (me from Fri Dec 21-Noon on Xmas Day and him from Noon Xmas day-Sun Dec 30th). He also would have them Jan 3-6th. I only have half of Xmas Eve day off -Xmas Day. There would have been a reasonable visitation schedule worked out if he was actually working on Xmas like we do every year. When I asked him if he wanted to take the children to Sacramento for Xmas, he responded no they were staying at home this year. I have allowed him extra time in the past to take them to visit her family. His change request only reflects his current situation & will be different next year if he is not given the time off at Xmas."
Any changes?
Not sure why the other thread was closed. I have one more question.
Here is what I have for the Respondance paperwork. Does it sound good or do I need to fine-tune it a bit more:
"I am requesting that the current order for holiday visitation stand. Exchanging the children at Noon on Xmas Day is not an issue for me nor the children. His work schedule changes continually (he is a police officer) & only has Xmas off when it falls on his regular days off. This year he took the Xmas holiday off from work which is also his court-ordered holiday visitation. My family lives in the same city as I do so no travel is necessary. His family lives close to him (3-40 min both brother and mother). His wife's family, however, lives out of town in Sacramento, CA and Colorado. I offered him a swap of visitation time for Xmas this year, but he deemed it unfair. The swap I offered would allow us both to have the chilren when we are off work (me from Fri Dec 21-Noon on Xmas Day and him from Noon Xmas day-Sun Dec 30th). He also would have them Jan 3-6th. I only have half of Xmas Eve day off -Xmas Day. There would have been a reasonable visitation schedule worked out if he was actually working on Xmas like we do every year. When I asked him if he wanted to take the children to Sacramento for Xmas, he responded no they were staying at home this year. I have allowed him extra time in the past to take them to visit her family. His change request only reflects his current situation & will be different next year if he is not given the time off at Xmas."
Any changes?
