sicktomystomach
Junior Member
State of NEW JERSEY.
How can a wife of just under five years leave a house, take all the contents with her (i allowed her) and now she decides she will not contribute towards the mortgage? we purchased the house together. Both of our names are on the deed, however only my name is on the first and secound mortgages. she paid the mortgage the first year and i paid the the last three years. Her money covered my truck payment, quad payment all insurances and food.
Now that she left she is not willing to pay anything and I cant afford all my bills, she is now living with her brother and pays him rent. Im going to end up lossing all my things, the house and end up with bad creidit ! I tried to talk with her about this and she refuses to answer phone calls or textsa messages. I then receive a phone call from my attorney stating i better not call or text her any further or i could be served with a T.R.O. being a police chief i know all about restraining orders and now ive stopped my bothering her.
my question. How can a person walk away and not be held for their share of the bills until the house is sold or if Im able to purchase it? it seems so unfair that im "stuck holding a leaky bag" as she is able to start her new life. We have no children together but we each have three from prior marriage. she is law also and now a combat veterian. Once she learned she would be getting 100 percent disability from being in iraq, making over 75000.00 from corrections, and getting child support she left !! I watched her kids and worked my fulltime job (swing shifts at the time) while she was at war and this is my thank you for a job well done. This woman used me for every part of that word (used). and she almost came right out and told me. I only knew her for mabie six months prior to marring her as we moved fast because of her departing to a war zone. :
thanks
How can a wife of just under five years leave a house, take all the contents with her (i allowed her) and now she decides she will not contribute towards the mortgage? we purchased the house together. Both of our names are on the deed, however only my name is on the first and secound mortgages. she paid the mortgage the first year and i paid the the last three years. Her money covered my truck payment, quad payment all insurances and food.
Now that she left she is not willing to pay anything and I cant afford all my bills, she is now living with her brother and pays him rent. Im going to end up lossing all my things, the house and end up with bad creidit ! I tried to talk with her about this and she refuses to answer phone calls or textsa messages. I then receive a phone call from my attorney stating i better not call or text her any further or i could be served with a T.R.O. being a police chief i know all about restraining orders and now ive stopped my bothering her.
my question. How can a person walk away and not be held for their share of the bills until the house is sold or if Im able to purchase it? it seems so unfair that im "stuck holding a leaky bag" as she is able to start her new life. We have no children together but we each have three from prior marriage. she is law also and now a combat veterian. Once she learned she would be getting 100 percent disability from being in iraq, making over 75000.00 from corrections, and getting child support she left !! I watched her kids and worked my fulltime job (swing shifts at the time) while she was at war and this is my thank you for a job well done. This woman used me for every part of that word (used). and she almost came right out and told me. I only knew her for mabie six months prior to marring her as we moved fast because of her departing to a war zone. :
thanks
