What is the name of your state? New York
I have had a friend for over twenty years, we were actually more than friends. Over the years, this person accused me of doing several things to him and his property such as, stealing from him. breaking into his apartment, stalking and harrassing him, breaking into his mother's apartment, and tampering with his mail. He has also accused me of being abusive. He has also accused me of having accomplicaces (these people are his ex-friends, lovers, and even people who live in his apartment complex). Because I cared deeply for this person, I wrote these accusations off to his insecurities and such. I must also state, that over the years, I have given this person thousands of dollars, as his financial situation is less than mine. Recently, his accusatons have become more demanding and threatening. About one week ago, I called him, and he started accusing me again, and finally said do not call him or contact him again. I obliged and made no phone calls to him. This past monday 6/19/06, after returning home from work, I recived a phone message from the local police department stating that he went to thier office, and made a complaint. The phone message went on to say that I am not to call or have any contact with him at all, this includes being in his neighborhood, or else the police stated that they adivsed him to call them, and that I could be arrested. I telephoned the police, and tried to explain my innocence in this matter, they did not seem to want to hear my side, but just repeated what was said on the message left by them earlier. My fear is, after so many years of accusations and his not believing me, if anyone thing should happen that he fancies to blame on me, I will be facing legal problems, which I do not need and do not deserve. What can I do in a case like this?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
I have had a friend for over twenty years, we were actually more than friends. Over the years, this person accused me of doing several things to him and his property such as, stealing from him. breaking into his apartment, stalking and harrassing him, breaking into his mother's apartment, and tampering with his mail. He has also accused me of being abusive. He has also accused me of having accomplicaces (these people are his ex-friends, lovers, and even people who live in his apartment complex). Because I cared deeply for this person, I wrote these accusations off to his insecurities and such. I must also state, that over the years, I have given this person thousands of dollars, as his financial situation is less than mine. Recently, his accusatons have become more demanding and threatening. About one week ago, I called him, and he started accusing me again, and finally said do not call him or contact him again. I obliged and made no phone calls to him. This past monday 6/19/06, after returning home from work, I recived a phone message from the local police department stating that he went to thier office, and made a complaint. The phone message went on to say that I am not to call or have any contact with him at all, this includes being in his neighborhood, or else the police stated that they adivsed him to call them, and that I could be arrested. I telephoned the police, and tried to explain my innocence in this matter, they did not seem to want to hear my side, but just repeated what was said on the message left by them earlier. My fear is, after so many years of accusations and his not believing me, if anyone thing should happen that he fancies to blame on me, I will be facing legal problems, which I do not need and do not deserve. What can I do in a case like this?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?