how could you have been served with a hand written 100 year order, that you never went to court for.
what did you do that got you a 1 0 0 year order to stay away from, in civil court.
well its a long long story but....we had been together for 6 years and about to be married when she felt the need to go cheat before we married. so we broke up. during our relationship i had
excellent credit and a big line of credit. in order to build her credit we would buy stuff on her credit card then transfer it over to mine after a while, which built up her credit pretty quickly. when
we broke up i still owed around 15,000 on the car we had bought and i had around 15,000 of debt on my cards. she made the agreement with me that if i gave her all of our stuff, i.e. TV's,
computers, dvd players, furniture, etc. oh and the engagement ring(three stone, platinum band, custom made), she would pay me 15,000 dollars. that was roughly 1/3 or 1/4 the price of all our
of stuff new, not to mention all the debt she racked up with shopping etc. i agreed. im not dumb i never thought she would actually pay the full 15,000 but i did think she would pay some of it.
enough that i could pick up some extra shifts and not fall behind. well she never paid a penny. oh and we both lived in washington state, when we broke up i moved to oregon and she stayed in
washington. instead about a month after the agreement she went down and filed a no contact order. she told me it would keep me from getting my stuff back and not allow me to sue her. so i
hired a laywer to represent me in the no contact hearing and to sue her. 2 months after she filed the order i went in to the hearing. the police were already in the court room waiting. the judge
heard the case and ruled against me. he said although you have an eye witness who i believe i feel the need to keep this order in place. she claimed that i came to her apartment we argued
and she ran outside where i grabbed her by the shoulder and brought her back in then after talking for a few seconds after that i left. she never called the police and i never got arrested. what
she didnt know was that my friend was outside in the car and saw that none of that ever happend. well as soon as the judge ruled on the case the deputy walked out of the court room and
waited until i walked out of the court room, which i knew that i was gonna be arrested. the way the judge pushed my hearing to last and the cops sitting in the juror box. so i get arrested for
assault 4 and res. burg. oh and violation of no contact order. that was at the first hearing i went to. well i couldnt believe i was being arrested and i couldnt believe the charges!! well i bailed
out and hired a lawyer. about two weeks later, no new evidence, my charges were changed to assault 2nd and burglary 1st. now i was totally in a daze. they were talking about 3 years in
prison!! well like i said no actual evidence of anything besides the no contact order. i find out at discovery my ex actually went in to try to recant but the deputy said he knows about victims of
domestic violence so he talked her out of it and "lost" his notes on what exactly she said. i have never been charged with a DV and cops have never been to our house because of a fight! she
visited her parents away from me frequently and had 2 doctors she went to regularly. no past of DV's is my point. well i went to trial and was found not guilty of the assault but guilty of the
burg. dont ask me why they ever even charged me with a burg. and dont ask me why the jury found me not guilty of the assault but guilty of the burg? i dont understand that at all. so thats
why the have a 100 year no contact order. so now i really need some of that money to file my bankruptcy and pay the fines. i know i could lose but i have the actual contract she wrote
promising to pay me the money. it lists the stuff she took and how she would pay. i lost my good credit, 739, my job, my car, my dogs, my freedom and my life, figuratively and almost
literally. so thats the whole story. after what washington did to me i want to really cover my butt when i take her to small claims. i have never broken my no contact order!! i have never tried
to call her or contact her! i want nothing to do with her except i do want the money she promised she would give me. i live in oregon again and last i heard she moved to oregon also. i know i
can easily just go online and get her information but i want to be careful. cant i just have the court find the info and serve her without me having to get it? oh and my appeal was denied
because "although the jury found you not guilty of the assault 2nd they may have thought there was a lesser assault." which of course means even though you were found not guilty your still
guilty? so any and all help to figure this out and maybe get some actual justice is appreciated. washington state really needs a grand jury.