tootiefrootie
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?NC
I have joint custody of my two girls ages 12 and 9 ... The 12 year old threatens to go live with her dad, here there is a bedtime.. She packed her stuff and he picked her up. He doesnt really want her , he just wants to hurt me and he hates paying child support which I couldve cared less to get. He has an eleven year old step daughter who is very controlling and puts things in my daughters head, He is now bringing up that I let my husband spank the kids in which he gave verbal permission to him. He says my daughter is scared to come home, she hasnt even had a spanking in the past year. They live in a home where the kids are the parents . I feel like a bad mother for letting my daughter go and I miss her like crazy and have cried for three days. Its what she wants but Im not so sure its what she needs , and I want her here with me. She is twelve years old do I have a say so in whom she will reside no matter what her decision is . Thanks
I have joint custody of my two girls ages 12 and 9 ... The 12 year old threatens to go live with her dad, here there is a bedtime.. She packed her stuff and he picked her up. He doesnt really want her , he just wants to hurt me and he hates paying child support which I couldve cared less to get. He has an eleven year old step daughter who is very controlling and puts things in my daughters head, He is now bringing up that I let my husband spank the kids in which he gave verbal permission to him. He says my daughter is scared to come home, she hasnt even had a spanking in the past year. They live in a home where the kids are the parents . I feel like a bad mother for letting my daughter go and I miss her like crazy and have cried for three days. Its what she wants but Im not so sure its what she needs , and I want her here with me. She is twelve years old do I have a say so in whom she will reside no matter what her decision is . Thanks