JESSICARODGERS
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What is the name of your state? Texas
okay i have been in 6 year relationship with a multi-millionaire who got me and my son to move to a different town and was engaged to him lived with him for 4 years . He didnt want me to work so i can take care of his house as well as mostly his personal needs and supported everything and lived a life of luxury . I am ciompletly dependent on him and he controls all the money coming in and i was okay with that. He has his mood swings and he has all the power because he knows i have no where to go and if he gets mad he tries to kick me out and then we make up and a few months go by but it happens every couple of months or so and it does emotional damage and puts me under so much stress and not to mention its mentally abusive. So i have been kinda use to his trying to break up qith me and then regretting it and i end up staying everytime he does this he usualkly puts 10,000-30,000 in my bank accountand thats a pre warning sign for me.Well this time it was all of a sudden and he justy is acting mean and horrible. He says leave. get out and expexts me to in 1 day. He puts no money in account qnd i use my last money to buy food for the house and stuff we need now i have no money and am counting change. He just told me he will be back in a week. he is acting unreasonable and i dont knoiw why all of a sudden but i suspect someone else and he has no more use for me .He has said reciently that he has to be mean to get me to move or wont leave and i told him no all he has to do is talk to me about it and help me move but i cant move with no place to go and being completly dependent of this man for the last 6 years and living with him for the last 4 and him getting me to move to a different town a hour away from any family .i have been good to him and am not like any other woman he will find .and despite the age difference still loved him and didnt bother me and after all said and done he treats me like shit calls me names and breaks my things .i have asked his help so i can get out but he told me to sale my car and i dont want to do that..i shouldnt have to do that and dont deserve this . i undderstand he wants me gone quickly but how he expects me to do that with no place or money is stupid. he is a multi-millionaire with over 4 million in the bank and can easily help and can make this easy but no he makes it very hard ,mentally and verbally abusive ,destroys my items and causes me emotional damage ..im not being a bitch ,breaking his things or causing him anything , i am not refusing to leave or be difficult and actually want to leave I am not trying to causing him any kind of problems i dont like drama and try to avoid it.i dont want to put my son through the stress im going through. I dont ask for much i just dont want to leave with no where to go and no money to live off, He says he wasnt giving me a dime and to sell my car to get the money because he isnt giving me a dime. i have been way more reasonable and have been packing my things which i have to move all on my own and with out any help from him .We are not married but was engaged even called me Mrs.starr before and for him to just do me this way is not right and i don't deserve it. ? With depending on him for the last 6 years and with him supporting me and my son it seems like a divorce and just as difficult except without the piece of paper . I don't want much except not to be left stranded with nothing but a vehicle to live out of.its inhumane and feel i should be entitled to something i dont want alot of money and just want to be able to get on my feet again so i can get a job and not be dependent of him or anyman again. but its hard to do if your options are taken away .
okay i have been in 6 year relationship with a multi-millionaire who got me and my son to move to a different town and was engaged to him lived with him for 4 years . He didnt want me to work so i can take care of his house as well as mostly his personal needs and supported everything and lived a life of luxury . I am ciompletly dependent on him and he controls all the money coming in and i was okay with that. He has his mood swings and he has all the power because he knows i have no where to go and if he gets mad he tries to kick me out and then we make up and a few months go by but it happens every couple of months or so and it does emotional damage and puts me under so much stress and not to mention its mentally abusive. So i have been kinda use to his trying to break up qith me and then regretting it and i end up staying everytime he does this he usualkly puts 10,000-30,000 in my bank accountand thats a pre warning sign for me.Well this time it was all of a sudden and he justy is acting mean and horrible. He says leave. get out and expexts me to in 1 day. He puts no money in account qnd i use my last money to buy food for the house and stuff we need now i have no money and am counting change. He just told me he will be back in a week. he is acting unreasonable and i dont knoiw why all of a sudden but i suspect someone else and he has no more use for me .He has said reciently that he has to be mean to get me to move or wont leave and i told him no all he has to do is talk to me about it and help me move but i cant move with no place to go and being completly dependent of this man for the last 6 years and living with him for the last 4 and him getting me to move to a different town a hour away from any family .i have been good to him and am not like any other woman he will find .and despite the age difference still loved him and didnt bother me and after all said and done he treats me like shit calls me names and breaks my things .i have asked his help so i can get out but he told me to sale my car and i dont want to do that..i shouldnt have to do that and dont deserve this . i undderstand he wants me gone quickly but how he expects me to do that with no place or money is stupid. he is a multi-millionaire with over 4 million in the bank and can easily help and can make this easy but no he makes it very hard ,mentally and verbally abusive ,destroys my items and causes me emotional damage ..im not being a bitch ,breaking his things or causing him anything , i am not refusing to leave or be difficult and actually want to leave I am not trying to causing him any kind of problems i dont like drama and try to avoid it.i dont want to put my son through the stress im going through. I dont ask for much i just dont want to leave with no where to go and no money to live off, He says he wasnt giving me a dime and to sell my car to get the money because he isnt giving me a dime. i have been way more reasonable and have been packing my things which i have to move all on my own and with out any help from him .We are not married but was engaged even called me Mrs.starr before and for him to just do me this way is not right and i don't deserve it. ? With depending on him for the last 6 years and with him supporting me and my son it seems like a divorce and just as difficult except without the piece of paper . I don't want much except not to be left stranded with nothing but a vehicle to live out of.its inhumane and feel i should be entitled to something i dont want alot of money and just want to be able to get on my feet again so i can get a job and not be dependent of him or anyman again. but its hard to do if your options are taken away .