tiredmother
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? TX. I filed for a divorce back in May the same day I found out about the affair that my husband of 3 yrs was having with a much older co-worker. Well he would show up once in a blue moon to see our daughter and just argue with me. I can not figure out what I did wrong in my marriage to make him want to go out and seek more than just this one woman. He never gave me money for our daughter so I kept receipts of all the bills that I was paying to the home that we had both lived in ( but my parents bought). The situation with the home is that my parents gave us the home and now he wants full control of the home after he left for more than 3 months. I was given a truck by my father when I sold my car and the title is only under my name and I have a receipt to show my dad paid the truck in full. He wants the truck also. He has only started paying child support early September and he wants to be pardoned from paying any back child support. I was given the ok to come up to IL to live ( I still don't know the full details of it since my lawyer screwed me over on that too) Well when he found out that I left TX he filed a contempt order against me. He tried selling the trailor since he took the title when he broke into my home. He is willing to drop the contempt order against me if i sign the agreement to pay the transfer of the truck back to TX (wheich is going to cost me alot of money that i do not have), pardon the back child support, allow the visitations ordered by the state of TX, allow the one-hour phone calls every sunday, and give him the trailor. So i lose the only transportation I have and my home back in TX if I were to ever go back. My attorney is telling me just sign the agreement. This is just not fair. He is the one that had the affair and when I showed his lawyer and him the pictures I had of them together to show that he committed adultery they laughed in my face and denied that it was him. Why should I have to pay for his mistakes? I'm the one who had to completely change my life from being a stay at home mom to a working single mother while he's out there screwing around and bragging about it. I am sick of it and need some kind of advice. Please Help!