momataloss
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What is the name of your state? NY
Married 20 to a correctional officer. We have 2 boys 20/16. My soon to be ex had me fasely arrested back in July, a month after I filed for divorce, for fasely accusing me of hitting him. No photos, and no proof. I spent 2 days in jail for something I didn't do. He called the police 8 times only to be removed from the premises. There is a restraining order against me till 12/07. False allegations.
My soon to be ex, verbally, and physcially abused me. I brought in er reports, dr reports and even pictures and in Supreme court was told by the judge that these are "serious allegations".
My soon to be ex was awarded the kids. My 16 year has called me every name imaginable and wants to stay with his father, even though I practically raised the kids myself as the soon to be ex, worked 5 years away, works doubles, weekends and holidays.
The ex now gambles (says he has no money), so much so that he has comp at the casino, is 3/4 times a week at the local bars with his girlfriend whom is a frequent visitor at the local bar with her Harley.The soon to be leaves my 16 year old home alot alone.
The law guardian is against me.My 16 year was talking to a 36 year old man on his cell phone which I got copies of the bills and the main concern of the law guardian was "how did you get copies of those bills?". My son was to go away with this man with my husbands knowledge overnight. 2 days before I called this man up and told him to never contact my son again. My son is gay.
My ex does not have my kids best interest at heart nor does the law guardian who does speak to my ex and my ex's lawyer.
How do I win custody back? We have a TRIAL in May because things are so bad. I have been ordered out of the house in Nov. with only my personal things. The house was to be on the market in Sept. He over priced it $100,000 and the new realtor will not do any adver. until he lowers it. Both name is on the deed but he won't budge. I don't have any of my beloginings. I had 6 hours to leave all because of the ex falsely calling the police.
I need help bad.
Married 20 to a correctional officer. We have 2 boys 20/16. My soon to be ex had me fasely arrested back in July, a month after I filed for divorce, for fasely accusing me of hitting him. No photos, and no proof. I spent 2 days in jail for something I didn't do. He called the police 8 times only to be removed from the premises. There is a restraining order against me till 12/07. False allegations.
My soon to be ex, verbally, and physcially abused me. I brought in er reports, dr reports and even pictures and in Supreme court was told by the judge that these are "serious allegations".
My soon to be ex was awarded the kids. My 16 year has called me every name imaginable and wants to stay with his father, even though I practically raised the kids myself as the soon to be ex, worked 5 years away, works doubles, weekends and holidays.
The ex now gambles (says he has no money), so much so that he has comp at the casino, is 3/4 times a week at the local bars with his girlfriend whom is a frequent visitor at the local bar with her Harley.The soon to be leaves my 16 year old home alot alone.
The law guardian is against me.My 16 year was talking to a 36 year old man on his cell phone which I got copies of the bills and the main concern of the law guardian was "how did you get copies of those bills?". My son was to go away with this man with my husbands knowledge overnight. 2 days before I called this man up and told him to never contact my son again. My son is gay.
My ex does not have my kids best interest at heart nor does the law guardian who does speak to my ex and my ex's lawyer.
How do I win custody back? We have a TRIAL in May because things are so bad. I have been ordered out of the house in Nov. with only my personal things. The house was to be on the market in Sept. He over priced it $100,000 and the new realtor will not do any adver. until he lowers it. Both name is on the deed but he won't budge. I don't have any of my beloginings. I had 6 hours to leave all because of the ex falsely calling the police.
I need help bad.