longsally111
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What is the name of your state? South Carolina
We have some gossiping neighborsand we had a fight with them almost 2 years ago. Look up old thread if you are interested. Anyway, we have had no contact with these people for 1 1/2 years. We recently found out that these people stated that I had herpes, was a thief, have munchhousen by proxy. They stated my next door neighbors ( an attorney and special ed teacher) are drunk drivers and child abusers, you get the picture.
Anyway, I came home from work yesterday and found a note on my door from the police asking me to call them. When I did, I got an officer who proceeded to tell me that a friend of mine who lives in the next subdivision over was accused of trying to run over the gossiping sister of my neighbor. I told the officer I would never believe that. Then I asked what that had to do with me. The officer then tells me that the womans brother, my neighbor who I have not spoken to in 1 1/2 years accused me of trying to run him down twice last week. His witness? The sisters husband.
I was in shock to say the least. I told the officer that it did not happen and that I was being falsly accused. I then asked for the times that this happenned so I could get my work records and prove where I was. He then tells me that no report has been filed and that if he has to file one, someone is going to jail. He tells me that he will come back next week to talk to my neighbr and he had better not hear anything else or I will be arrested!!!!!
First of all, I have hired an attorney to send this man and his sister a letter along with 3 other families they have gosspied about warning them of a law suit for harassment and defamation if they continue. Then a letter to the police warning them that they are being used my neighbors as a billy club and to cut it out.
My questions; 1. Can a police officer come to my friends home and mine without a report being filed and "warn us" to behave or threaten us with jail. 2. what about the idea of the letters, good or bad. 3. Should we file a complaint against the officer for the threats. He made comments to my friend while in her home about the way she looks, the size of her diamond ring and her children and what a shame if would be to lose it all once she is arrested. 4. Any other advice is appreciated.
We have some gossiping neighborsand we had a fight with them almost 2 years ago. Look up old thread if you are interested. Anyway, we have had no contact with these people for 1 1/2 years. We recently found out that these people stated that I had herpes, was a thief, have munchhousen by proxy. They stated my next door neighbors ( an attorney and special ed teacher) are drunk drivers and child abusers, you get the picture.
Anyway, I came home from work yesterday and found a note on my door from the police asking me to call them. When I did, I got an officer who proceeded to tell me that a friend of mine who lives in the next subdivision over was accused of trying to run over the gossiping sister of my neighbor. I told the officer I would never believe that. Then I asked what that had to do with me. The officer then tells me that the womans brother, my neighbor who I have not spoken to in 1 1/2 years accused me of trying to run him down twice last week. His witness? The sisters husband.
I was in shock to say the least. I told the officer that it did not happen and that I was being falsly accused. I then asked for the times that this happenned so I could get my work records and prove where I was. He then tells me that no report has been filed and that if he has to file one, someone is going to jail. He tells me that he will come back next week to talk to my neighbr and he had better not hear anything else or I will be arrested!!!!!
First of all, I have hired an attorney to send this man and his sister a letter along with 3 other families they have gosspied about warning them of a law suit for harassment and defamation if they continue. Then a letter to the police warning them that they are being used my neighbors as a billy club and to cut it out.
My questions; 1. Can a police officer come to my friends home and mine without a report being filed and "warn us" to behave or threaten us with jail. 2. what about the idea of the letters, good or bad. 3. Should we file a complaint against the officer for the threats. He made comments to my friend while in her home about the way she looks, the size of her diamond ring and her children and what a shame if would be to lose it all once she is arrested. 4. Any other advice is appreciated.