Ok, we called our attorneys office today to ask a few questions regarding the relocation. Our attorney was out today, so we talked to his assistant.
She said, that there is no "form" to send to the non custodial parent of the intent to relocate, that we just write up a letter and send it to her certified mail. Then, it is up to her to petition the courts to stop the move. She said that the "courteous" notice you give them to contest the move is 30 days. Then after the 30 days, our attorney will file the new orders (revised visitation that we have agreed upon) and then we can hit the road.
Does this make sense?
MSM
She said, that there is no "form" to send to the non custodial parent of the intent to relocate, that we just write up a letter and send it to her certified mail. Then, it is up to her to petition the courts to stop the move. She said that the "courteous" notice you give them to contest the move is 30 days. Then after the 30 days, our attorney will file the new orders (revised visitation that we have agreed upon) and then we can hit the road.
Does this make sense?
MSM
The more I think about it, the more I believe that this is probably what she has wanted all along. When it comes to being a Mother, she just doesn't try to be a good one. I can't believe that someone is just that dense and worthless without actually working at it. If we move out of the area, it will make it SO much easier on her. Which is sad, but the truth. I firmly believe that she does not want to fight this because she doesn't want him.....she never has. So looking at it that way, I hope I'm right. But the flip side, she does like to make things hard on us and cause problems; so I hope she doesn't fight it just to stall us or make it hard for us. Who knows with her, she is just so unpredictable that it's scary. Putting that aside, thanks again IAAL for all of your assistance. We will probably send her an email before we send the letter "warning" her that she will be getting it, and that it's formality that we need to send it to her. That way, she probably won't think anything of it when she gets it. I have sent her an email updating her on the progress of the relocation, and asked her if she still stands the same regarding not fighting us....She replied stating that she was not going to fight it and that our visitation agreement will work out fine. But then again, we all know how true her word is. You can't trust her with a thing. So we'll see.