What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Good morning.
I know we don't like "3rd Party" questions but this is for a very good friend of mine.
She married a man who has 2 small children from a previous marriage. He has visitation and Mom has physical custody and they have Joint Legal Custody. He is current on all child support even while being unemployed in the construction industry for the last 6 months.
A month ago Mom took Dad to court to raise his child support and to fight against the temp court order that they both reached in mediation AND signed AND the judge signed.
ETA: I have a copy of the court order here with me *putting it up against the screen* LOL
Custody was to be 50/50 with Dad getting EOW and lots of time in Summer and additional holidays to make it a true 50/50. Mom decided she didn't like it and hired an attorney. This all occured after a judge signed it as a temp order.
Court date came and Dad showed up with no attorney (stupid idiot!!) and Mom had an attorney. Dad showed that he was on unemployment and actively seeking employment etc. Judge told him he "was being well taken care of" (my friend is a very well paid corp tax accountant) as they live in an affluent area of Orange County. Judge proceeded to ask what kind of car his new wife drove and he drove. Weird. Then told them he was using his new wife's income (didn't have any idea what it was), Dissomaster program was "down", so judge GUESSED at what it should be. Basically he doubled the child support payment and added daycare on top of it. Nice eh?? Then continued it until May with the temp orders.
Orders come in the mail a few days later: Child support is $___ INCLUSIVE of daycare costs (that is a direct quote from the orders). Meaning that daycare was included in the child support so in reality his support payment went down. Weird again.
Now Mom is freakin out cause she is out about $400 a month.
Can she REALLY include the spouses income??? Mind you the house they live in was bought before they got married by my friend at a great foreclosure rate and they by no means, live high on the hog. He NEVER asked for a decrease due to unemployment either. He was happy to keep paying the original amounts.
Thanks
Good morning.
I know we don't like "3rd Party" questions but this is for a very good friend of mine.
She married a man who has 2 small children from a previous marriage. He has visitation and Mom has physical custody and they have Joint Legal Custody. He is current on all child support even while being unemployed in the construction industry for the last 6 months.
A month ago Mom took Dad to court to raise his child support and to fight against the temp court order that they both reached in mediation AND signed AND the judge signed.
ETA: I have a copy of the court order here with me *putting it up against the screen* LOL
Custody was to be 50/50 with Dad getting EOW and lots of time in Summer and additional holidays to make it a true 50/50. Mom decided she didn't like it and hired an attorney. This all occured after a judge signed it as a temp order.
Court date came and Dad showed up with no attorney (stupid idiot!!) and Mom had an attorney. Dad showed that he was on unemployment and actively seeking employment etc. Judge told him he "was being well taken care of" (my friend is a very well paid corp tax accountant) as they live in an affluent area of Orange County. Judge proceeded to ask what kind of car his new wife drove and he drove. Weird. Then told them he was using his new wife's income (didn't have any idea what it was), Dissomaster program was "down", so judge GUESSED at what it should be. Basically he doubled the child support payment and added daycare on top of it. Nice eh?? Then continued it until May with the temp orders.
Orders come in the mail a few days later: Child support is $___ INCLUSIVE of daycare costs (that is a direct quote from the orders). Meaning that daycare was included in the child support so in reality his support payment went down. Weird again.
Now Mom is freakin out cause she is out about $400 a month.
Can she REALLY include the spouses income??? Mind you the house they live in was bought before they got married by my friend at a great foreclosure rate and they by no means, live high on the hog. He NEVER asked for a decrease due to unemployment either. He was happy to keep paying the original amounts.
Thanks
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