soon2bstep
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What is the name of your state? fl-tx
my fiance works in texas, but has a "divorce" court date in fl this month. the question we are asking, is that since he has had to take vacation, borrow against 401k to travel, can he take the ex to small claims(along with a loan he was required to take out-by the navy-for a car repair of HERS), and get any of this money back? his vacay is not paid, as he has not been there a year...he is w/an employer whose retirement plan says if you borrow during the first X amt of years, you cannot put money back in for X amt of time...plus, along with the 401k withdraw, he's having to use money he is borrowing from friends to get down there...are these things(along with court costs that apparently have to be shared), that he can take her to small claims and get back?
***before you ask, the divorce is fraudulent, and we've proven this to the court, however since her case is still open, they both still have to appear anyways, as there is a child involved...
my fiance works in texas, but has a "divorce" court date in fl this month. the question we are asking, is that since he has had to take vacation, borrow against 401k to travel, can he take the ex to small claims(along with a loan he was required to take out-by the navy-for a car repair of HERS), and get any of this money back? his vacay is not paid, as he has not been there a year...he is w/an employer whose retirement plan says if you borrow during the first X amt of years, you cannot put money back in for X amt of time...plus, along with the 401k withdraw, he's having to use money he is borrowing from friends to get down there...are these things(along with court costs that apparently have to be shared), that he can take her to small claims and get back?
***before you ask, the divorce is fraudulent, and we've proven this to the court, however since her case is still open, they both still have to appear anyways, as there is a child involved...