tigger22472
Senior Member
What is the name of your state? Indiana
Husband took ex to court in Nov. 2004 for a modification of their decree. The judge ordered 3 things: husband no longer carried insurance, ex claimed taxes every year and a bank account for the child was to be changed to a joint account requiring both parents signatures for withdraws. During the hearing the judge stated that husband "should" give ex 1/2 of the SS monies he received for the child. At the end of the hearing the judge told ex's lawyer to draw up the paperwork. As we were preparing to leave the courtroom the lawyer asked if he should put in the SS monies and the judge told him NO.. that the three things I mentioned above were all. Husband never saw any paperwork and yes dropped the ball on this. He was JUST today given a copy of an order drawn up AND signed by the judge on Dec. 3, 2004. There are 2 things listed.... the bank account and the SS monies... NOTHING ELSE.
Was the lawyer NOT required to provide husband with a copy? And if we get the transcripts could he be sanctioned for this?
Also, the ex saw this attorney on Dec. 18th about filing for custody. Now, we cannot verify this but supposedly the lawyer was just going to draw the paperwork up to have the parties look it over and if agreed then it would simply be filed with the courts. Ex said she called lawyer last Thurs (the 4th) and was told that it would be mailed out. The ex told husband today that she received the paperwork yesterday and that there was a court date set (she did not tell him when it was because.. long story.. supposedly it's going to get canceled.. of course he is going to check on for sure what it is for and when it is) but he's not received any paperwork at all or any notice of a hearing while supposedly he has the address of both us and of his brother. I realize that if he's not properly served the court date will not go on as scheduled and he has lead way but could the attorney be sanctioned for this also?
TIA
Husband took ex to court in Nov. 2004 for a modification of their decree. The judge ordered 3 things: husband no longer carried insurance, ex claimed taxes every year and a bank account for the child was to be changed to a joint account requiring both parents signatures for withdraws. During the hearing the judge stated that husband "should" give ex 1/2 of the SS monies he received for the child. At the end of the hearing the judge told ex's lawyer to draw up the paperwork. As we were preparing to leave the courtroom the lawyer asked if he should put in the SS monies and the judge told him NO.. that the three things I mentioned above were all. Husband never saw any paperwork and yes dropped the ball on this. He was JUST today given a copy of an order drawn up AND signed by the judge on Dec. 3, 2004. There are 2 things listed.... the bank account and the SS monies... NOTHING ELSE.
Was the lawyer NOT required to provide husband with a copy? And if we get the transcripts could he be sanctioned for this?
Also, the ex saw this attorney on Dec. 18th about filing for custody. Now, we cannot verify this but supposedly the lawyer was just going to draw the paperwork up to have the parties look it over and if agreed then it would simply be filed with the courts. Ex said she called lawyer last Thurs (the 4th) and was told that it would be mailed out. The ex told husband today that she received the paperwork yesterday and that there was a court date set (she did not tell him when it was because.. long story.. supposedly it's going to get canceled.. of course he is going to check on for sure what it is for and when it is) but he's not received any paperwork at all or any notice of a hearing while supposedly he has the address of both us and of his brother. I realize that if he's not properly served the court date will not go on as scheduled and he has lead way but could the attorney be sanctioned for this also?
TIA