What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ca
There is a BUNCH of orders my ex has broken, so I am not nitpickin here. But one of the orders says, "neither parent will discussion any element of visitation with the children". Our kids are in their mid teens. Our meeting place and time for pick up and drop offs changes a lot for various reasons. However my ex absolutely refuses to speak to me, blocked my email, does not even text message with me and is CONSTANTLY making the kids be the go between. My ex makes our kids call me or tell me where and when my ex wants to get them and do any other needed cordination for their clothing and stuff for the visits with my ex. I am thinking about bringing some sort of an enforcement of orders motion or contempt.... but I am wondering if this should be included as a violation of court orders. I am also wondering if this is called putting the kids in the middle. I keep on protesting to my kids and my ex about it, but it seems to fall on deaf ears so I am the only one throwing a fit about it and wondering if I am out of line? Also my kids cooperate with it because my ex tells them how much he hates me and because there have been some incidents at the pick up and drop offs where my ex told the kids the reason he did what he did is because he cant stand to speak to me or see my phone number on his phone. There used to be a lot of domestic violence when I lived at home and the kids do it to protect me.
There is a BUNCH of orders my ex has broken, so I am not nitpickin here. But one of the orders says, "neither parent will discussion any element of visitation with the children". Our kids are in their mid teens. Our meeting place and time for pick up and drop offs changes a lot for various reasons. However my ex absolutely refuses to speak to me, blocked my email, does not even text message with me and is CONSTANTLY making the kids be the go between. My ex makes our kids call me or tell me where and when my ex wants to get them and do any other needed cordination for their clothing and stuff for the visits with my ex. I am thinking about bringing some sort of an enforcement of orders motion or contempt.... but I am wondering if this should be included as a violation of court orders. I am also wondering if this is called putting the kids in the middle. I keep on protesting to my kids and my ex about it, but it seems to fall on deaf ears so I am the only one throwing a fit about it and wondering if I am out of line? Also my kids cooperate with it because my ex tells them how much he hates me and because there have been some incidents at the pick up and drop offs where my ex told the kids the reason he did what he did is because he cant stand to speak to me or see my phone number on his phone. There used to be a lot of domestic violence when I lived at home and the kids do it to protect me.
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