What is the name of your state?Oregon
I know its getting old BUT Im still not sure what to do... So I will ask the question, what would you do if you were in my situation??? I know I do have a lawyer, obviously he is not giving me any guidance.. I have only spoken with him maybe four or five times. Yes I retained him, I felt at our initial consultation he could help me.. Now Im not so sure...Should I be feeling this confused about what I can and cant go for in court? I thought in the begining I had no choice but to give some type of visitation and try to meet half way. That didnt work out. He wants what he wants and there is no room for ?. Yes from what I have read here, He is going to get some type of visitaion.. Unless I dicide to fight any contact.. On what grounds?? Abandonment or extreme parental disinterest,failure of reasonable efforts,failure to maintain contact and failure to provide support please correct me if Im wrong on this.. why would I want to deny him his flesh and blood? Well I have nine years worth of reasons to tell you why.. Am I one of those controling (bleeps) no I am very much for second chances and all that Bleep. My child hasnt been without a father, just the biological one. There was nothing I could do about it at the time.. This time I want to do something..
shari
I know its getting old BUT Im still not sure what to do... So I will ask the question, what would you do if you were in my situation??? I know I do have a lawyer, obviously he is not giving me any guidance.. I have only spoken with him maybe four or five times. Yes I retained him, I felt at our initial consultation he could help me.. Now Im not so sure...Should I be feeling this confused about what I can and cant go for in court? I thought in the begining I had no choice but to give some type of visitation and try to meet half way. That didnt work out. He wants what he wants and there is no room for ?. Yes from what I have read here, He is going to get some type of visitaion.. Unless I dicide to fight any contact.. On what grounds?? Abandonment or extreme parental disinterest,failure of reasonable efforts,failure to maintain contact and failure to provide support please correct me if Im wrong on this.. why would I want to deny him his flesh and blood? Well I have nine years worth of reasons to tell you why.. Am I one of those controling (bleeps) no I am very much for second chances and all that Bleep. My child hasnt been without a father, just the biological one. There was nothing I could do about it at the time.. This time I want to do something..
shari