Peanuts200788
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What is the name of your state? GA
I have had several phone calls from old acquaintances that are associated with my X and his friends trying to find out information from me; I know he's asked them to call to find out information because I refuse contact with him. If I can prove he's doing this, is it harrassment? We keep a record of all the calls like this that come in with the number and time and everything
A friend told me it would be good to get a restraining order against him or something, but I haven't because he hasn't done anything to me to make me feel threatened except threaten to take away my child, and legally it's not his child yet so I don't have that to worry about til a later date....but my question is should I file one against him? I don't think it warrants it, but a friend seems to think it would look better in the long run...why that is I don't know
Also...he has a myspace account that he'd given me the password to when we were dating...would it be wrong to check it occasionally to see what he's up to? If I did find evidence of things such as drug use, etc. would that be admissible in court or could I myself get into trouble because I snooped?
I've asked the doctor's office not to give out any information about me to anyone but ME, but I do know he knows where it is...unfortunately it is now in walking distance from where he's staying for the time being but if he were to come in asking for information about me...it would be illegal for them to tell him anything including information about dr's appts right?
I'm not worried about anything it's just I think of questions and have this desire to have them answered...I want to know as much as possible and educate myself as much as I can about my situation.
I have had several phone calls from old acquaintances that are associated with my X and his friends trying to find out information from me; I know he's asked them to call to find out information because I refuse contact with him. If I can prove he's doing this, is it harrassment? We keep a record of all the calls like this that come in with the number and time and everything
A friend told me it would be good to get a restraining order against him or something, but I haven't because he hasn't done anything to me to make me feel threatened except threaten to take away my child, and legally it's not his child yet so I don't have that to worry about til a later date....but my question is should I file one against him? I don't think it warrants it, but a friend seems to think it would look better in the long run...why that is I don't know
Also...he has a myspace account that he'd given me the password to when we were dating...would it be wrong to check it occasionally to see what he's up to? If I did find evidence of things such as drug use, etc. would that be admissible in court or could I myself get into trouble because I snooped?
I've asked the doctor's office not to give out any information about me to anyone but ME, but I do know he knows where it is...unfortunately it is now in walking distance from where he's staying for the time being but if he were to come in asking for information about me...it would be illegal for them to tell him anything including information about dr's appts right?
I'm not worried about anything it's just I think of questions and have this desire to have them answered...I want to know as much as possible and educate myself as much as I can about my situation.