What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Oregon
I was reading a post and replies on here from a few days ago about step parent boundries. I found it really interesting but it got me thinking(yes that is a dangerous thing) I have sole legal and sole physical of my child with 9year absent father having little visitation. My husband, who has been and is dad to my son for 7 years is the only father my son has known. I have always told my son about his bio dad. It never even crossed by sons mind about who mom and dad are( Husband and myself). Now that bio man is starting to come around my son was very upset with the fact he might have to call this man dad. I told him you call him what ever you feel comfy with. So now when he talks about the bio like with friends he says I have to go see my step dad (Tad). This cracks me up LOL..
Im wondering since I encouraged this bond with husband and son years ago, Only because the bio father wasnt interested in being envolved in any way, And because I loved my husband and he loved my son and I. Our lives together just came together no adjusting period everthing just fit.. What rights does my husband have to this child?? None?? I know its always said on this site that sp have no rights, As I understand my court order neither does the bio father other than having time with child and forming some kind of relationship.. Is the only way to give the sp rights to child is for him to adopt the child? If so and the bio says no to adoption, considering the bios past interest in the child would my husband have any grounds to go on for an adoption??
Shari
I was reading a post and replies on here from a few days ago about step parent boundries. I found it really interesting but it got me thinking(yes that is a dangerous thing) I have sole legal and sole physical of my child with 9year absent father having little visitation. My husband, who has been and is dad to my son for 7 years is the only father my son has known. I have always told my son about his bio dad. It never even crossed by sons mind about who mom and dad are( Husband and myself). Now that bio man is starting to come around my son was very upset with the fact he might have to call this man dad. I told him you call him what ever you feel comfy with. So now when he talks about the bio like with friends he says I have to go see my step dad (Tad). This cracks me up LOL..
Im wondering since I encouraged this bond with husband and son years ago, Only because the bio father wasnt interested in being envolved in any way, And because I loved my husband and he loved my son and I. Our lives together just came together no adjusting period everthing just fit.. What rights does my husband have to this child?? None?? I know its always said on this site that sp have no rights, As I understand my court order neither does the bio father other than having time with child and forming some kind of relationship.. Is the only way to give the sp rights to child is for him to adopt the child? If so and the bio says no to adoption, considering the bios past interest in the child would my husband have any grounds to go on for an adoption??
Shari