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What is the name of your state? CA
I know CA doesn't take this lightly. My problem is that my girlfriend and I were caught having oral sex in a parking garage with a security camera from distance but they saw what went on. Well she was giving me a bj. She's 16 turning 17 very shortly, and I'm 18 now. Cops came and gave me a ticket. We haven't had sex yet so I can't be charge for a much more serious crime. I asked the officer what would happen and such. He told me some of the things, but he's not a lawyer or knows the law other than giving a ticket or taking people in.
Here's some of the things that I think would help me.
1) We've been together for about 6 months.
2) This was consensual
3) My girlfriend said that she was the aggressor.
Her mom is mad about this but she's not pressing charges. I don't want a child molestation on my record not when she's only around a year younger than I am. That's even in a closer ranger of age than most marriages out there. I got from some people, including the officer that the DA would not pursue it more than it is, due to the circumstance yet it's up to the DA. I would like some more opinion professional or not on this matter. I would also like to know about the fines and consequences if I am convicted.
I know CA doesn't take this lightly. My problem is that my girlfriend and I were caught having oral sex in a parking garage with a security camera from distance but they saw what went on. Well she was giving me a bj. She's 16 turning 17 very shortly, and I'm 18 now. Cops came and gave me a ticket. We haven't had sex yet so I can't be charge for a much more serious crime. I asked the officer what would happen and such. He told me some of the things, but he's not a lawyer or knows the law other than giving a ticket or taking people in.
Here's some of the things that I think would help me.
1) We've been together for about 6 months.
2) This was consensual
3) My girlfriend said that she was the aggressor.
Her mom is mad about this but she's not pressing charges. I don't want a child molestation on my record not when she's only around a year younger than I am. That's even in a closer ranger of age than most marriages out there. I got from some people, including the officer that the DA would not pursue it more than it is, due to the circumstance yet it's up to the DA. I would like some more opinion professional or not on this matter. I would also like to know about the fines and consequences if I am convicted.