OP is frustrated that the court ordered half of his hard earned money to be turned over to his wife because his wife is lazy and chooses NOT TO WORK!!
But he can't have it both ways.
He's either pissed that she's getting alimony because she's lazy and doesn't work and therefore doesn't deserve it...
OR
He's pissed because she has a MUCH HIGHER income than him, and gets alimony anyway.
He really needs to decide which side he's fighting from or he's gonna sound like an idiot in court.
And I KNOW it wasn't OP's claim that she's entitled to more of the assets of the marriage than he is. That's MY claim if she REALLY DOES make that much more money than him. Because IF IT'S TRUE, she contributed more all along.
(She'd also be 'entitled' to more of the marital debt, in my opinion)