Thanks for reply,I've entered US on J1 visa which was extended for another year.Before it expired I got married to my husband,an US citizen.I had a status of aupair which I lost.Now I'm a spouse of US citizen,I'm not what that applies excatly.We haven't had a chance to process the immigration paperwork and now I have to leave the country,I won't have time to process it by then.There must be a way for me to come back to my husband
Please,help.Thank you.Michaela
If you leave without filing to Adjust your Status (commonly called AOS) and getting a travel document called Advance Parole, you will have to return with the correct visa. Your husband can start the process with a petition I-130. See the link I gave you.
It will take 6-9 months to get the visa.
If you have collected enough days since your J-1 status expired, you may be banned from returning to the US, visa or no visa, for 3-10 years.
Being the spouse of a US citizen is helpful with solving these problems, but it does not give you any legal status in the US as of today. If you stay in the US now and file your AOS, any overstay from your J-1 will be forgiven (excused). If you leave the US, it will not.
You should think very carefully about what your plan is before you leave the US, or maybe choose not to leave.