summerdawn
Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ca
Dad and I mediated our problems out, and signed a stipulation to submit to the judge to be signed. I am not sure if it has actually gone through yet, but apparently the final draft of the stipulation had a mistake on it. It states that dad gets every single Sunday. This is ironic because SM has been trying to convince me to give up my 1st and 3rd Sundays for a while (pretty much ever since dad started getting visitation). I was unaware of this mistake until I got an email from "dad" (SM, probably) stating that according to the CO I signed they have every single Sunday and they would be here today with the order in hand to pick up the children. I didn't get the email until after the pick up time. Apparently, they showed up to pick up the girls while we were still at church. I don't know if they filed a police report or not, as I wasn't home.
I KNOW what I signed and it did NOT say that they have the girls every single Sunday. They have tried to get me to consent to that for over a year now and I haven't because I know, from the first mediator we had, that I have a right to every other weekend with the kids under Califiornia standard visitation guidelines. I don't have a copy of what I signed yet because I told them I would pick it up after the judge signed it.
I don't know if the stip has been signed by a judge yet, and I want to know how I can have it corrected because I do NOT consent to giving up my kids every Sunday. Do I have any recourse? I'm going to call the courts tomorrow to see what is going on with it, but I don't know if I have to file anything, or what to do. I am seriously irritated.
Dad and I mediated our problems out, and signed a stipulation to submit to the judge to be signed. I am not sure if it has actually gone through yet, but apparently the final draft of the stipulation had a mistake on it. It states that dad gets every single Sunday. This is ironic because SM has been trying to convince me to give up my 1st and 3rd Sundays for a while (pretty much ever since dad started getting visitation). I was unaware of this mistake until I got an email from "dad" (SM, probably) stating that according to the CO I signed they have every single Sunday and they would be here today with the order in hand to pick up the children. I didn't get the email until after the pick up time. Apparently, they showed up to pick up the girls while we were still at church. I don't know if they filed a police report or not, as I wasn't home.
I KNOW what I signed and it did NOT say that they have the girls every single Sunday. They have tried to get me to consent to that for over a year now and I haven't because I know, from the first mediator we had, that I have a right to every other weekend with the kids under Califiornia standard visitation guidelines. I don't have a copy of what I signed yet because I told them I would pick it up after the judge signed it.
I don't know if the stip has been signed by a judge yet, and I want to know how I can have it corrected because I do NOT consent to giving up my kids every Sunday. Do I have any recourse? I'm going to call the courts tomorrow to see what is going on with it, but I don't know if I have to file anything, or what to do. I am seriously irritated.
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