This seems as if it will be complicated. We went to ny and we called the grandparents to ask to see the child. They said no. We were so far able to find out that the mother did indeed divorce the father and had a order of protection with her and the childs name on it. My son did not know about the divorce. It bacame final while she was in hospice.
Any ways we have filed a removal for order of protection and custody in the proper county in NY state. So now we wait for court. In the meantime the court did appoint a legal guardian of the baby thru the court system. Now we wait and see i guess
Does he have an attorney? He NEEDS one.
Has dad moved? Did mom 's divorce file have evidence of proper service?